girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you,he moves different on his own. Life's too short to be waiting for someone to act right!
Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
Sis let that man go and be with what he's used to. You’re stressing him out with all your discernment, intuition, standards, accountability, boundaries, nurturing, and genuine love
I saw my husband differently after something that happened at the grocery store.
We were in line when the cashier, trying to be funny, said, “Wow, you’ve got your hands full. Bet she spends all your money too, huh?”
A couple people chuckled.
I felt that familiar, small smile forming the one women use when they’re about to brush off something uncomfortable.
Before I could say anything, my husband looked at him and said, “She built half of what we have. I’m lucky she lets me spend hers.”
It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t aggressive. It was calm. Certain.
The cashier went quiet.
He didn’t turn it into banter. He didn’t let it slide to keep things easy. He corrected it without making me the punchline.
And in that moment, I felt something settle in my chest.
It wasn’t about money. It was about respect.
He didn’t need a dramatic scene. He just made it clear I’m not the joke in any room he’s in.
And I realized, it’s one thing to be loved in private.
It’s another thing to be honored in public.
That’s when I knew I was safe.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
this is a woman who knows she won't get yelled at for closing his laptop, won't be scolded for interrupting him, won't be ignored, her emotions are prioritized, she feels safe, cared for, loved, and he's treated her like this since the beginning
it takes two to have this. you don't just "marry" a romantic woman, you show her how much you love her every single day and this dynamic will last forever. otherwise you lose her
I want to go on a REAL date.
Getting picked up with flowers.
Having activities already planned out by your partner.
A romantic candle lit dinner.
Getting cute pictures taken.
Ending it off with a walk at a pretty park or by the river.
People are saying Senegal have set African football back 10 years.
I disagree.
I think they have REVOLUTIONISED the sport.
No longer will teams just allow being victims of BLATANT corruption. They will now make a stand.
BRAVO!
I have never in my life since I have been watching football seen where a referee will return back to his country and they welcome him with flowers and with Ghana flag wrapped about his neck!! And he’s smiling like he has completed his mission! Also I have never seen where a referee does Regular Interviews after officiating a game! AGAINNN! I HAVE NEVER SEEN A REFEREE DO AN INTERVIEW BEFORE 🤯! Can only happen in Africa.
It’s like Daniel Nii Laryea gave Ghana their biggest achievement|Joy ever. They’re so proud of him than any of the players that have played for their National team whether active or Retire. So shameless.
Nigerians on a norms will Just bant Ghana if they Jonz. We don’t have that time to go ahead and be celebrating a referee!! Honestly e dey burst my head.
Difference is that we bant them and they seriously don’t like us atall. From their souls.