Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary
Haven't been on X for a while,so today I had that feeling of coming online,guess my instinct worked cause today is my 4th year anniversary on X😊.
Some years back, I shared how the story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego in a furnacee brewed so many unanswered questions in my little heart.
Later in my 200 level while taking a course in engineering thermodynamics which deals with heat,
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- Zero contact rule. Just block them everywhere and stop stalking them. Remember one thing, they are busy with their life and you are wasting your precious time.
- Control your urge to stalk them.Get a grip on yourself.
- Prioritize yourself. Love and respect yourself enough to not waste your energy on those who do not give a single shit about you.
- Make youself busy that you don’t have time to overthink. Your energy needs to be utilised and if you are idle you will do stupid things so utilize it in right place.
- Stop yourself from assuming things and stop giving yourself excuses for their shitty behaviour.
- In reality you know whats the truth i.e the other person doesn’t care, Accept it.
- Believe me they are not very special, you are the one who made them special.
- Stop your “what if” parade. Whatever has happened has happened. Don’t reside in your own illusive bubble.
- Remove all the hope from your heart. Just accept the reality and move on. It was just not meant to be.
- Feelings change with time. They have changed so it’s your time to evolve.