Financially - I’m going to win.
Career wise - I’m going to win.
Mentally - I’m going to win.
Emotionally- I’m going to win.
Physically - I’m going to win.
Family wise - I’m going to win.
With love - I’m going to win.
In my life - I’m going to win.
I’m manifesting it all.
5. Learn how to communicate needs: many of us learned our needs didn't matter and don't know how to actually communicate our needs. Today I practice understanding, meeting, and asking for needs to be met.
4. Learn to ask for, and accept help: many adults who were the golden child try to take everything on themselves and even wear this as a badge of honor because help wasn't always there for us. Today, I ask for help and practice accepting it.
3. It's ok to disappoint people. I spent most of my life doing anything I could to never disappoint. I feared that disappointing someone meant I was wrong and believed my role was to manage how other adults felt (like childhood.) This is no longer my role.
1. Fathers can never fully appreciate the physical, mental and emotional sacrifice of a mother. They give so much more than us. Our job is to support them the best we can.
2. A calm mind is your most powerful tool.
Apologies won't heal you. Closure won't heal you. Validation won't heal you. Time won't heal you. Jumping from one relationship to another won't heal you. Eating, drinking, drugging, distracting, numbing, smoking, or fucking your pain away won't heal you. Only YOU will heal you.