I cannot express this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them EVERYDAY. You have NO IDEA what someone's life is like.Don't create more pain & stress to others. BE KIND. BE GENUINE. Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don't like about you
Major life hack: Don't complain, ever. Nobody likes a complainer. They drain the energy of everyone around them. It's exhausting spending time around someone who constantly complains about things outside their control. If it’s within your control, go do something about it. If it’s not, you’re just wasting energy thinking about it. Complaining gives too much power to the thing. Take back that power.
Imagine you finally achieve your life wealth goal. Really think about it.
Now imagine everyone you know in this dream has 3 times more than you.
If imagining this makes you instantly want to make more, know that you make money for other people, and not yourself. You're trying to buy status, not freedom. Because status only has one price: "more than everyone else." And you're surprised you never feel like you have enough but that's exactly the price of the only thing you want to buy.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
If babies understood embarrassment, most of them would never learn to walk or speak because of the amount of failure required to improve.
This was one of our first lessons in life but somehow, we forgot
the more you increase your emotional intelligence, the less you'll take things personally because you'll realize that most people aren't reacting to you, they're reacting to their own past, their own fears, their own struggles, their own bad days