I know a girl at work whose husband gives her the same amount of money we earn monthly, and one time he actually doubled it and has been begging her to stop working.😭. She still won’t quit work
Ana live a TikTok ina shan dariya
“Munje kinci pizza da shawarma harda yiwa yan gidan ku take away, kawai kuma daga taba hannun ki sai kice”
“Wala taqarabuz zina” 😹🤣🤣🤣
You people are funny o, so the Abuja girls getting married day in day out, na ghost dey marry them?🤣😂 iskancin da muke gani na yan state da LG ah social media dinnan, baya musaltuwa da yanmatan Abuja, amma hassada ba bakin chiki da rash in son gaskiya kuka sa gaba.🤣😂
Now I understand why Abuja guys are running away from Abuja to Jigawa and Gombe to find a wife.
Davido hugs a married woman and some Abuja girls are saying there’s nothing wrong with it because she was promoting her business.
Business my ass, Business promotion has now become a license for married women to hug non mahrams? Kut, Wallahi we’re finished.
If a married man hugged a woman, I hope you’d write the same epistles.
I’m simply saying it’s good that, as Muslims, we hold ourselves to high standards. It’s good that we hold one another accountable. But the sexism is just too obvious—as though if Abuja women are considered ‘used,’ it isn’t the same Abuja men who ‘use’ them. As though, Islamically, there is any difference between the sin of a man committing fornication and that of a woman committing fornication.
Also, stereotypes are dangerous. As Muslims, we shouldn’t lump people from a particular place together and stain them with negative labels.
There are married women in Kaduna, Kano, and across Northern Nigeria who hug men too.
You can condemn the act and preach against it without framing it as ‘Abuja women’s behavior.’
Can we please talk about this “Entertainment” we didn’t ask for, that is being included in our bills in restaurants? Gets on my last nerve😩
Service charge
VAT
Entertaiment
And your waiter waiting for his own tip, per usual.🤦🏽♀️
I’m genuinely one hell of a petty person, cause I’m definitely going to be a reflection of you, Family, friend or acquaintance, that’s why everyone might just get a different version of me, and I’ve never believed in being the bigger person, in most cases, because why?🤷🏽♀️
Y’all still see things on social media and bring it up for example, sorry to burst your bubble, but a lot of women actually went into polygamy and don’t mingle with their co-wives children, kuma an zauna lafiya, shi aure bai da manual, what works for kinal will not work for you.
You see how faty kinal married as a second wife, do you see how she brings his kids close, calls them her family, now that’s how life should be. You can’t want polygamy, and dislike the kids you meet in it.