If your girl looks better without you (as in before you, after you, or when she’s not around you) than it means you and you alone are the drain on her beauty and spirit.
Stop letting a man consume you. He didn't call? Go to sleep. He didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. He left you on read? Delete the conversation. He didn't make an effort? Walk away from him. Never let your happiness be held hostage by a man.
im a firm believer in taking care of the man that takes care of me, if a nigga makes sure im straight rather it be something big or small. I'm going to always make sure he knows that he's appreciated.
I dont date men without fathers, and I don’t date men with kids. I don’t date men in addiction. I don’t date men that hate women. I don’t date ugly men. And I don’t date men that can’t lead better than me. Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fcked up.