I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
i think that larger structural powers would benefit from us thinking the world is going to end bc nihilism is a tool of fascism. i think we have to remain optimistic and care about our loved ones and communities at the bare minimum