Anyway, just want women around me to understand, you need to start aspiring towards financial independence with the exact same urgency society wants you to aspire towards marriage.
If I were pregnant and informed that my fetus had Down syndrome I would absolutely abort. No amount of social media romanticizing of profound disability would change my mind. Contrary to popular opinion, you need more than love to care for a disabled child.
You can’t call abortion “playing God” while using chemo, insulin, C-sections, IVF, and Viagra.
You’re not against medicine.
You’re against women choosing.
As a woman I am extremely aware the only reason I have rights is because women before me got mouthy, organized, and made herself inconvenient. Thats why I see women who uphold the patriarchy as traitors
There is a lot of luck invovled with finding a spouse, particularly one worthy of having children with, so I side-eye pretty much all comments looking down on those who haven't settled down. It's arrogant and shows a lack of self-awareness.
I don’t understand this new style of omugwo.
A woman has just given birth, but somehow the person who came to “help” is waiting for her to cook, serve food, and make sure they’re comfortable.
What exactly did you come for?
Omugwo is supposed to take stress off a new mother, not add another adult to the list of people she has to take care of.
If the woman who just put to bed is still worrying about whether you’ve eaten, whether you’ve been served, and why you’re squeezing face because food isn’t ready, then you’ve completely missed the point.
If you’re not coming to lighten her load, please stay in your house. A woman recovering from childbirth should not be carrying you too.
Have we completely turned omugwo upside down, or is it just me?
I don’t understand this new style of omugwo.
A woman has just given birth, but somehow the person who came to “help” is waiting for her to cook, serve food, and make sure they’re comfortable.
What exactly did you come for?
Omugwo is supposed to take stress off a new mother, not add another adult to the list of people she has to take care of.
If the woman who just put to bed is still worrying about whether you’ve eaten, whether you’ve been served, and why you’re squeezing face because food isn’t ready, then you’ve completely missed the point.
If you’re not coming to lighten her load, please stay in your house. A woman recovering from childbirth should not be carrying you too.
Have we completely turned omugwo upside down, or is it just me?
nobody wanted Arsenal to win the Prem because we thought their fans were gonna be unbearable and annoying, but whats ended up happening is everyone else has become completely unbearable instead, crying and belittling their achievements as much as possible just to fuel agendas
The stark difference between how Kim handles and exits relationships Vs Khloe is the psychology of growing up as the pretty sister Vs the ugly sister.
One grows up expecting options, the other learns to tolerate more. That shows up in relationships