Yesterday marked 8 years since my assault and since your cells regenerate every 7-10 years, I can be at peace knowing there isn’t a piece of me remaining that was touched by that person. Free at last 🤎
@sannyjunipero Was literally saying this lmfao because his reaction is not normal and goes beyond being a concerned friend honestly lol. Maybe he doesn't realise the closet is wide open 😅
This is so real.
I’m a grown man, and I lived in so much poverty that there was no money for enjoyment. The money my parents had was strictly for survival.
My life changed about 2 years ago, and now I have “adult money.” 😂 It’s very, very plenty to me sha.
So I decided that I’m going to start experiencing things I wish I had experienced growing up.
I used the train for the first time this year.
Went to the beach for the first time this year.
Went to the zoo for the first time this year.
Tried an expensive restaurant twice this year.
Started trying different delicacies.
I even had “qwasan” this year. That thing that looks like a burger sha. I think the spelling is croissant. 😂
Omo, the number of ice cream flavours I’ve discovered this year alone. I didn’t even know they had alcoholic ice cream. 😭
I’m planning to learn how to swim this year.
Probably driving too.
Rooftop apartment too. 😂
These things sound very normal, but I’m experiencing some of them for the first time as a grown man.
That’s one thing poverty does to you.
It makes you see only one side of the world that exists.
You spend so much time trying to survive that you don’t even realize there’s a whole world of experiences you’ve never had.
And the scary part is that getting the money doesn’t automatically fix your mind.
I’m still mentally struggling to drop some random habits I picked up from those years.
Sometimes your account has changed, but your brain is still in survival mode.
That’s why I’m so against poverty.
Not because I think money is everything, but because I know what poverty can take away from you.
I’m glad I’m helping people figure things out.
Because poverty is a scary place to be.
But we’ll get there soon.
@Penguxn It's more embarrassing if you're grown and you still don't realize that everyone is different and grows out of things like this at their own pace. Not everyone is like you.
Hating someone for it or being a prick about it instead of being understanding is equally childish.
@santaluceya is Rejection that hard to take for men? where do you come off insulting someone just because they aren’t interested in you😭 you got her number through dubious means in the first place after stalking her and now she is a “Slut” na wa oh
Join. They'll put you in alto. They always put those who have weird voices in alto. And when someone makes mistakes during rehearsals, they'll say it's alto singers.
@Astro_jessie It gets worse before it gets better.
Keep practising and find makeup looks you like and replicate them with techniques like contouring, bronzing, highlighting just to name a few till you get it.
Also 80% of good makeup lies in skincare. The art is as good as the canvas is.
- She’s naked is not consent
- She’s half naked is not consent
-Changing clothes in front of you by accident or comfort is not consent
- Sharing a bed to sleep because there is no other room is not consent
- Wearing a bikini or underwear in front of you is not consent
- Drinking alcohol or taking drugs with you is not consent
- Dancing closely with you at a party is not consent
- Being friendly, smiling, or laughing is not consent
- Flirting or sending playful text messages is not consent
- Accepting a gift or a date is not consent
- Riding alone in a car with you is not consent
Consent can be taken back at any time. If there is no clear "yes," it is a "no." Pity yourself & your family.