"The society that separates its scholars from its warriors will have its thinking done by cowards & its fighting done by fools."
โThucydides,
the first Ancient Greek historian
Neither of these men are married or have kids.
Both are simply obsessed with their own personal perfection and optimization.
There is nothing impressive about a single man with no kids sleeping well and being fit.
Show me a man with young children, a full time job, disrupted sleep, who works out regularly, eats healthy, trains Jui Jitsu, with a muscular bodyโฆ
THIS is impressive. THIS requires extreme discipline.