Having children is not something you just do. Stop having kids if you don’t intend to be the best you can be for them. PROTECT YOUR KIDS. They didn’t ask to be here.
Some men don’t want a wife. They want a woman who will play the role of a wife while they continue living like a bachelor.
Cook for me. Clean for me. Raise my children. Be loyal to me. Understand me. Support me financially when necessary. Satisfy me sexually.
But don’t question me. Don’t expect too much. Don’t disturb my peace.
They want a woman to carry the responsibilities of marriage while they enjoy the freedom of being single.
And when she finally gets tired, they call her selfish.
I just think it’s absolutely psychotic that a man can say he wants to spend the rest of life with you while secretly obsessing over other women in his phone, and keeping women from his past in close proximity while you’re tryna build trust and decide to believe everything he says.
Good sex can make you feel connected to someone you’re not actually compatible with.
Sexual chemistry is powerful, but if it’s the strongest anchor in the relationship, eventually the ship is going to sink.
I like a stiff nigga! Not in everybody reactions, not overly friendly with different bitches, not out here making himself too accessible. And it ain’t got shit to do with controlling a man. I just like a man who understands how easy it is for another female to mistake friendliness for an opportunity, so he moves in a way that makes it VERY clear ain’t no opportunity over here. 😂🤷🏽♀️
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i’m a bad person. I have my ways & i have my days but i’m solid and my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
I’m such a "thank you so much" typa girl because i understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so i'll always appreciate the people who choose to show up for me.!💚
I'm at the age where I don't wanna be with a nigga, who doesn't make me feel special. I don't wanna be with NOBODY if I still have to do my own thang. I dont wanna relationship if we not a team. I dont wanna lay next to nobody I can't open up to. I don't wanna sit around silent knowing something wrong. I don't wanna brush shit under the rug. I don't wanna have sex when we can't even communicate & have decent conversations. I don't want nobody that's gon shut down & not act their age. I don't want a mf more stubborn than me. I don't want to live a lie. 2026 I Wanna GROW, Even If That Means Letting Go !!