@minouni@Tgirl_Leila @nolursunsusartk Yes, I believe you're right. I didn't know that wasn't in the books. It's a common trope in film/tv that in order for a woman to have agency, something terrible has to happen to her first. Oftentimes, SA.
@txsalth2o@The_Deornwulf Yeah I would understand not wanting to go to baby showers at all, but to get mad about a very specific way to refer to a gift registry...