@somizi its normal2like ppl den once u r wit them then you realize that they are not what you wanted. Also, he allowed her in cos she didnt have a place to stay as she just got a job so he was also helping her. After all they were "dating"
@Naked_Dj@KhutsoTheledi#askaman
No @Naked_Dj if the car is not being used for the kids then there is no reason for the car to be there. If the kids are now staying with grandkids then why is the husband using it? Rather he rents it cos its heping HIM and not the kids.
@somizi@KhutsoTheledi#AskAMan
No @somizi and @Naked_Dj
The reason the car was taken there has changed so dont make it sound as if he is wrong for wanting it back.
Its his car and since its not used for the kids then he should take it. Sometimes we make excuses for no reason
@KhutsoTheledi#AskAMan
Does Anon want to leave the marriage? Cos she says the hubby wants a divorce but she didnt say what it is that she wants besides having a problem about everything that has to do with the sangoma.
The hubby sounds gone.
@Naked_Dj@KhutsoTheledi#AskAMan
The sangoma got the husband where he wants him. The husband is his puppet now. He has seen that he controls him. His salary probably goes to the sangoma's household. This union is doomed.
Anon should start packing up.
@KhutsoTheledi@Naked_Dj#AskAMan
It will be difficult to show the husband that the sangoma and his family are ruining his marriage simply because the sangoma was able to help him with his health when NOBODY was able to. So the sangoma's word is his gospel. He is being used.
@Naked_Dj@KhutsoTheledi#AskAMan
@KhutsoTheledi@Naked_Dj
I am not knowledgeable about sangomas but my thinking tells me that the husband has been brainwashed and he believes everything the sangoma says cos he healed him. He probably feels indebted to him. Is the hubby an old traditional man?
#AskAMan
The confusion comes with the guy having accepted her WITH her status. That on its own made her think that HE is THE ONE.
@KhutsoTheledi@Naked_Dj@somizi#AskAMan
👏🏽 at @somizi on enlightening @Naked_Dj on the fact that 1 can be committed to someone yet not faithful.
Anon just needs to know that they cant sleep togeda n just be frnds unless she means friends with benefits. There will always be the temptation.
@KhutsoTheledi#AskAMan
@somizi@Naked_Dj@KhutsoTheledi
As its rong4her 2 want 2b wit da guy knowin dat hes in a committed relationship, its da guy's responsibility2protect hs r/ship. It sounds like she just wants to hv fun n always liked da guy so she wants to c wat she cud hv missed out on
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