My environmental econ prof just admitted to beating up his Taiwanese roommate in college bc roommate was playing music after his bedtime 🙃
During the lecture. That he records.
This is how to be an ally. Don't just smile uncomfortably, or chuckle weakly. Don't just shrug it off or pretend you didn't hear it or see it.
Without social consequences, people will not change their behavior.
Look at the activity level of any other primate. We should not be doing this much. Stop committing to doing things and lay around with your friends. Its the natural way.