Just me sharing cuz I overthink & I would like to give the same 4 ppl in my life a lil break from listening. Welcome to my #virgoโ๏ธ brain ๐๐พ๐คท๐ฟโโ๏ธ๐
@FinesseEness Gurl this is how they talk in the corporate world & when they get called out its insubordination. I only mess w/ non-black folks that make sense these days. And for the longest I thought it was me ๐
Because I love Chris Brown's talent I've come to the consensus that you can be a shitty partner but still throw down in the bedroom. Talent is talent. I respect talent more than persons I guess ๐คท๐ฟโโ๏ธ๐
@ParissAthena I think so. If you were born in a family or was in an environment that taught you multiple languages then ur definitely at an advantage. I think choosing to learn another language is different.
I told the new guy a very brief background career story & he asked if I went to college or have I been grinding the whole time? Truth be told my career path is not the tidy pic u would expect for someone w/ a degree. It's giving certificates & random "professional courses" ๐๐
Or you'll get promoted to more work cuz who else gon do it & you've been doing it for a while now for the same money. Oh I've heard it all before. I'm curious to see how far I'll go on the other side ๐ค
Correct me if I'm off but #HR at a startup can be the most stagnant position. They not hiring a slew of #HR folks but every other dept is growing like wildflowers. Its tuff to post promotions/growth when ain't near one in sight for you unless somebody leaves. They don't leave.
My house is a mess, my marriage feels like a full on war & I'm googling what it takes to be a data scientist. Work, my knowledge & money are all I can fully control but none of that fixes the other shit. I gotta fix the other shit. #mybrainhurts
My recruiter intuition is tingling so I don't think this new guy is gonna be here long. Just the messenger; I don't make the rules ๐คท๐ฟโโ๏ธ๐
One lightning bolt & a 10 minute burst of rain followed by a slow clearing sky. I'm mesmerized & at my peak of happiness so far for today โ๏ธ๐ฆ๐
Through it all, I've learned that the way my personality is set up, I can do anything, but there's some things that I really shouldn't. Listening to myself & my body is not as easy as it sounds. Especially when everything around us tells us to keep going no matter what.
Need to prove to them why they should deal w/ u. Even if u the only one offering it. But once they decide to remember you prepare for the phone to ring nonstop cuz now u the go-to. Best warning I've ever received. I knew then it was time to go ๐
While I was in finance the Executive Director of essentially the Black Chamber of Commerce in my area said that I would need to reintroduce myself several times to yt people. Meaning, they see you but they ain't paying u no mind. And even when they want what u offering u still