No one is too busy for the person they really like. If they don't call, text, or message, don't chase them, mind your own business, and leave them alone. Remember, no message is a message and no response is a response. Prioritizing people who prioritize you is top tier self-care.
Don’t become like your parents who used their trauma as an excuse for treating you poorly. If you’re an adult, you’ve got to get serious about healing your childhood wounds. You’re responsible for breaking the cycle.
If someone ghosts you, respect the dead and never disturb them again. If someone gives you the silent treatment, enjoy your quiet time. Normalize not taking things personally, letting people be themselves without trying to change or control them, and living your life accordingly.
trust me when i tell you. when a person loves you more than their ego, everything flows. no conversation too uncomfortable. no bare minimum task too great. no reasonable ask too unreasonable. they will move mountains for you because they want to. your happiness makes them happy.
when you're dealing with someone who makes you feel like you want them way more than they want you, it can make you feel crazy, even worse, go crazy. so go where you're wanted, adored, and loved on. idc how much you love them, if you stay, you'll pay in suffering, so pls just go.