@areyoflight Tbh i've heard that I'm lazy way too many times from people who know I have a chronic illness to not feel targeted when someone says "You should/have to do this."ππ Like I will have a little "is this fucking play abt us" moment esp when it's said in a demeaning way
@aetherophasic Im like reallyyy late to this but I actually encountered this because I thought I was going insane because no one else really seemed to think this or talk about it
@parnaibensis@htmljones Views on gender expression and stuff are always different across people but I keep forgetting that some people don't think "feminine β woman"
@lucifem_@coldesteel@kewlbot He IS on T lol. Broad shoulders just doesnt seem to meet his transition goals. I would be upset too if Im changing my body with a goal in mind and someone points out the very opposite of what i had in mind
@PeterParkerSI@dazaichu_ Not to mention that it wasnt something 'mainstream' until like the big 2020 shift when more people started participating in fandoms. Even now I think it's only really something you know if you spent some time on the internet with fandom spaces
@eau_defemme I'm not necessarily saying I don't want to be perceived as a c!s guy. I just don't want to fit the standard of a masculine c!s guy. I very much understand that people will perceive me as a girl bcs of my body but I very much want to change that. Masculinity is just not my goal
@eau_defemme I understand that but also I don't want to force myself to be masculine as much as I hate TERFS. I don't think i'd feel happy in a body that conforms to the ideal of c!s men. But I totally get that it's a sensitive thing
@eau_defemme @foidian maybe i interpreted the comic wrong but its about being feminine not being a woman? I'm a trans man who wants surgery and T DESPERATELY but i also prefer a more 'feminine' appearance for myself
@Invincible_Nuke@offmodescarab Probably but also like he was communicating closely with the dev of the game so i don't think he just took off and decided to take creative liberties that make no sense