I like dating men that do things for me, but it’s never an obligation. If you’re not the type to do things for your woman, I just simply won’t continue dating you. Idk why men get so angry about it either lmao
Çoğu erkek basbayağı eşcinsel, gerçekten abartmıyorum. Çünkü kadınları "insan" olarak falan sevmiyorlar. Sadece "sevgilim var" statüsü için yanlarında tutuyorlar ama doğal halimizden, zevklerimizden, konuştuğumuz konulardan resmen tiksiniyorlar. Heyecanla anlattığımız her şeyi gizliden gizliye ezikliyorlar. Bizimle iki saat kafede karşılıklı oturup sohbet etmek onlara yemin ederim angarya, zorunlu bir vatani görev gibi geliyor. Ama olay kankalarına gelince öyle mi? Bir adamın hayatında sen varken bile aklı fikri 7/24 beylerle takılmaktaysa, onlarla sabahlara kadar boş yapıp seninle buluşmayı ceza gibi görüyorsa; o adam seni falan sevmiyordur net. Harbi harbi çoğu erkek eşcinsel bence ama bunun asla farkında değiller. Neden biliyor musunuz? Çünkü onlara göre eşcinsel olmak fazla "kadınsı" bir şey. Ve bu tipler, kadınlara ve kadınsı olan her şeye ölesiye nefret ediyorlar. Olay bu kadar basit.
incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it’s a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. she becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.
One of the hardest things about becoming a parent, is how easy it is to love your child. Even when he’s screaming, crying, or having a tantrum. I just talk to him softly, hold him, and give him kisses. Now I’m crying because my mom used to scream at me to get away from her. 🥺
everytime men complain about an “advantage” women have, it’s always because of the patriarchy
“women get awarded custody more”
yeah because y’all decided child rearing was a woman’s job
“male victims of women aren’t taken seriously”
yeah because you’ve decided women are weak and incapable
“women don’t get drafted”
see above
“women can make money just by being hot”
yeah because you treat us like objects, it’s YOUR money
I will never shack up with a man again. Ever.
I’ve already lived that life. Cleaning up after a grown adult. Asking for basic respect in the space we BOTH live in. Repeating the same requests over and over like you’re talking to a child.
No thank you.
I think a lot of men need to realize they don’t have nearly the amount of gold required for the women who fuck w them to be actual gold diggers. You don’t pay any of her bills, you don’t fund her life, you don’t send her money for nails or hair or anything that could be taken as funding her.
You buy her food when you’re together. You buy her gifts on holidays. That’s kind of just a normal dynamic of any basic friendship.
If she goes to work every day and funds her own existence, you just throw her some dinners or buy her a coffee here and there, you’re doing the actual bare minimum that women do for their female friends on a regular basis. You have no gold to dig.
realizing that you’re incompatible with someone (because they don’t meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. look how much you’ve grown.
the rage you suddenly feel on a random night after not feeling anything for awhile. “i didn’t deserve to be treated like that” repeatedly playing in your mind, urging you to hate many things. yet you still have some love to give, even after it happened, even when you are angry.
It’s getting exhausting being the friend that’s always going to everyone else. I can’t wait until I move. I wanna be able to have friends over so I’m not constantly driving + using all of my gas every single week
You told women to close their legs, so they did. You told them to choose better men, so they did. You told them to raise their standards, and they listened. Now you’re angry because you’re not being chosen, and suddenly it’s a “male loneliness epidemic.” It’s not a shortage of women. It’s entitlement meeting standards.