Hard Pill to swallow as an adult:
At some point, you will have to disappoint others to live a life that's honest to you.
People pleasing will drain you, not save you.
You have every right to set boundaries and choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person.
Character is easy to fake when a man has no options. Poverty can look like humility. Fear can look like discipline. Social weakness can look like morality. Wait until he has money, access, sexual options, and the freedom to sin without consequence. Abundance does not corrupt nearly as often as it reveals.
A lot of men talk like philosophers and move like beggars. They speak on discipline, purpose, standards, and honor, but one attractive woman, one disrespectful superior, or one cheap opportunity is enough to reroute their behavior. Your real beliefs are not in your words. They are in what still controls you.