Tinderhella

/Tales from the front/Like if the Golden Girls had strapons/50+ and still naked but not afraid/What my grandmother wd refer to as “oversexed”/diary

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

The backstory is told really well in the first 10 minutes of the first episode with a hilarious montage of bad Tinder dates thus far.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@WaifuLittle @frocksoffantasy @MarkDL66 @Cooperstreaming @Kriscilicious Do you realize you’re dismissing this person’s experience and pain. Do better.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@WaifuLittle @frocksoffantasy @MarkDL66 @Cooperstreaming @Kriscilicious Do you realize how dismissive and insensitive this comment is?

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@iAmBrianBurch @frocksoffantasy @MarkDL66 @Cooperstreaming @Kriscilicious Do you realize your comment is insensitive and dismissive? Do better.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@frocksoffantasy @MarkDL66 @Cooperstreaming @Kriscilicious These replies are awful so I wanted to chime in. You are entitled to your story. Your pain is real, your experience is valid. I’m a therapist, I see this every day, even when kids aren’t physically or sexually abused, neglect, verbal and emotional abuse do plenty to f someone up

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@Cooperstreaming @Kriscilicious Also it’s narcissistic af. Oh, only YOU can teach your child? And teachers having eyes at least sometimes on your child in the outside world guards against abuse.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

I’ll be using this the next time I’m asked this question

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@daverandla @MandyConnell @sweetghoti

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@joncoopertweets How about that noise that erupted from the whole restaurant when she said Lesbians are P. People aren’t having it anymore.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@JefScotCantrell Mutuality is sexy as hell

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@JefScotCantrell Both 🥄

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@JefScotCantrell I would like to sign up for this service pls and thank you

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@Theholisticpsyc @Theholisticpsyc would love to see a thread on the survivors of childhood trauma who are left “holding the bag.” The ones tasked w doing all the feeling, the ones who are “mentally unstable.”

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@Theholisticpsyc And yet I’m the one w “mental health issues.” 🙄

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@MightBeBruce @Theholisticpsyc IFS Internal Family systems. Try the book “No Bad Parts.” Essentially you want to turn towards this guilty part that starves you to understand where it comes from, what it’s trying to do. Changing the relationship to it can modify the behavior.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@goodmangabs @Theholisticpsyc Somatic Experiencing, Brainspotting, EMDR (to some extent)

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@Rockin2012Robin @Theholisticpsyc I know a number of EMDR therapists who do this sort of work, looking at pre-verbal and infant trauma.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@recohn99 @Theholisticpsyc My child has a heart defect and has had 2 open heart surgeries at 4mo and 22mo. He’s 15 years old now, healthy as a horse, but I still see the effects of the experience on him. PM me if you want to chat more. I know this pain.

[Tinderhella @Tinderhella1]

@cmyungtweet @Theholisticpsyc This is my mom too. Now at 54 I’m unraveling my chaotic and violent childhood and seeing the impact it really had.