Favoritism is real. You gotta learn to stay out of people’s faces. Only go where the love is shown and the energy is returned. That includes friends, family, and associates. I will always pay attention to how people treat me versus how they treat others.
Gotta STAY CLEAR of folks who don't value the small sacrifices you make... like spending money you barely got, pulling up when you tired, giving advice, carrying their problems, or being the one who always checks in first. Some people only love the benefits, never the person. They'll use your energy just to go pour it into everybody but the one who's actually helping them.
please teach your daughters that having a voice is more important than being nice. having a backbone is more important than being palatable. having standards is more important than being liked. and having self respect is more important than being chosen.