Omotoyosi

Human||Wife||Zia’s mum||Mental Health enthusiast || Arsenal fan ⚽️ ||

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

My Rabb, I do not know your plans for me but I have placed my whole trust in you. Grant me patience and ease. Therefore, I testify there is no God but Allah, the One, there is no partner to Him and Mohammed (S.A.W) is his Servant and Messenger.

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[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

@larmmy I have been eating rambutan and calling it lychee. Wow!! Thank you ☺️

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

Lychee !! Top tier fruit frr.

[Chelsea Godmother 💰 🇺🇸 🇳🇬 @larmmy]

It's so nice. Had it in Maldives.
It tastes like candy. This fruit should be getting all the PR instead of that yeye strawberry

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Kindly help repost.

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

@Inotrope3 Ohhh well, sisters then? When do I visit?

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

Iya mi eru olohun, please DON’T.

[Luminous choice by FOLA @OlayemiKomolaf4]

Everyday, I regret not studying nursing

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

I really feel for people she works with, cuz what is this?

[Diary of a Female Surgery Resident @drhephzibah1]

@smallie399 You can't save a life and leave them with someone's wfo doesn't understand what's at stake..mm

[Paper 📄📄📄 @Hermeeenarh]

I have this cow for sale.

Kindly Rt🙏

Price: N950,000
Location: Ido LGA, Ibadan

Color: Black

NB: Price is slightly negotiable and does not include delivery.

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[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

@cakesdiet Only one cakesdiet!!

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

First breastfeeding and the contraction that comes with it!!!! Good lord.

[Yoruba angel 💎 @DamilolaLizz]

Things our mother didn’t tell us
1. First trimester wahala
2. First pee after childbirth
3. First poop after childbirth
4. Lochia discharge 😷
5. There is one stomach upset that happens too (not that serious though)
6. The part where your nipple is going to peel at first then heals back

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

@balqeesabd_ I shock oooo sis.

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

Wow!!!! La Hawla wa la Quwata illa BILah!!!!!

[A.Y.O @YusufAsunmogejo]

Elders say that when a man loses his footing, the ground shakes for everyone around him. Everything I will be saying here is the wisdom I got from my father.

Let me tell you one hard truth. Your husband is not fighting you; he is fighting his own shame. You said he took over a successful family business and brought it to ruin right? While you thrive? That is a huge confidence breaker.

His demand to take over your business is not about the children needing attention. It is a desperate attempt to feel like a leader and a provider again. No let anyone whine you.

And here you are. You do not want to lose your business and you do not want to lose your marriage. But there is a way our mothers handled it. A lot of our grandmothers were very wealthy market women, sometimes richer than their husbands.

But they understood that a man's ego will never allow him to sit at home and watch his wife feed him everyday. If you fight him head on over ownership, he will become toxic and he will find faults in everything you do just to prove he is the head of the house. Don’t go that route.

Instead, our mothers survived this by practicing invisible leadership. They gave the man influence without handing over the treasury.

Firstly, do not fight him face to face. Bring in that one uncle or elder he respects deeply. Let the elder soften the ground and make him see that taking your shop will not rebuild his father's company.

After the elder has spoken, sit him down and make him the chairman of your business. Let him handle the big suppliers, the landlords, or the government people. Give him a title that commands respect when he steps outside. But keep the bank tokens and the daily market operations in your own hands.

You also have to feed his need to lead. Consult him on things you already have the answers to. Ask him if you should buy ten cartons or fifteen, even when you know you are buying fifteen. It makes him feel in charge of the family vision.

Then, if the business is making good profit, free up some capital for him. Tell him you want him to use his experience to start a new branch or a completely different venture. Give him his own project to build.

When a man has his own vision to chase, he will stop fighting you for yours. That is how you keep your home peaceful and protect the sweat of your hands.

Allah knows best.

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

My leader 🙌🙌🙌

[Renè The Leader ❤ @Rene_noire]

Hiii 🥰

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

Very classless club!!! E foking koshi danu jare.

[Chelsea FC @ChelseaFC]

We probably deserve another red card for that last post! But in all seriousness, congratulations to @Arsenal on winning the Premier League and a great run in the Champions League.

Looking forward to picking up the battle again with you next season.

[Omotoyosi @To_your_c]

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