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I'll give married guys some free advice...
Chase your wife around the house. You turn something on in her. You guys become children for just that 4 minutes running around. 😉
Lift her off the ground. It says something to her mind. 😉
But if you want to keep the spark alive in the middle of a busy life, add these to the list:
Take over the dinner chaos. When she is staring down the pot trying to figure out how to feed everyone, stepping in and saying, "I've got this," or just ordering the Friday night pizza or food so she doesn't have to cook, speaks directly to her soul.
Handle the unsexy logistics.
Give her the gift of absolute silence. Sometimes taking the kids out of the house for two hours so she can just exist in a quiet room without anyone needing anything from her.
Flirt with her during the ordinary moments. A wink across the room while you are both cleaning up the kitchen reminds her that underneath the heavy titles of "Mom" and "Dad," you are still just two people crazy about each other.
Notice the invisible labor. Thank her for remembering the scheduling, the grocery, and all the behind the scenes magic that keeps the house running. It bridges the gap and silently says, "I see exactly how hard you work for us."
The movie romance is great, but the trenches of everyday life are where the real connection happens.
Show up for her there.
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A coworker died yesterday morning😭.
HR knew by 9 :00 AM, but they kept us working all day. They finally told us around 4 :30 PM, then had the nerve to say, "You can head home early if you need to"—knowing we all finish at 5: 00 PM anyway.
This morning, it’s back to "business as usual." Some of my friends are literally sobbing at their desks, but they’re expected to work and be productive. No time to grieve.
It’s a cold reality. Within a week, the company will have his job posted online. Within a month, someone else will be sitting in his chair.
But his family ,his children will still talk about him every day,they will ask where is daddy , His wife will mourn him for ages ,he was the love of her life .
At work, we are just a "resource" that can be replaced in a week. At home, we are the world. Stop giving your best energy to a desk that will forget you, and giving the "leftovers" to the people who never will.
A B2B SaaS founder in Lagos called me one Monday morning.
I was eating eba.
He said,
"Stephen, one of my clients just opened their dashboard and is seeing another company's employee salaries."
I told him to repeat himself 😂
He repeated himself.
I dropped my eba on the table immediately.
Wait...
Before you continue, do me a favor.
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Two years ago, a developer I know launched a small product here in Nigeria.
Everything was going fine.
Users were signing up, logging in, and using the platform daily.
Then one morning he woke up to something strange.
Several users were complaining their accounts had been accessed… without their permission.
Kindly bookmark for yourself and retweet so others too can learn
What Liquidity Means
In finance and investing, liquidity is how easily you can buy or sell an asset without drastically affecting its price.
Think of it like water:
* If it flows easily → high liquidity.
* If it’s thick or stuck → low liquidity.
Liquidity in stocks
Liquidity usually comes from exchanges:
High Liquidity:
* You can buy or sell a stock quickly.
* Prices remain stable.
* Example: GTB shares or Meta stock on a major exchange.
Low Liquidity:
* Buying or selling can take days/months and isn’t guaranteed .
* Shares with very low daily trading volumes and limited buyers/sellers, making them difficult to exit without impacting the price
* Example: Eunisell, DEAP etc
Why Liquidity Matters
* Let’s you enter or exit positions without losing value.
* High liquidity = healthier and more reliable markets.
* More liquidity = fewer volatile swings
While you could be excited about high growth pls watch out for liquidity.
Her resignation letter made the CEO go silent for twenty minutes...
Emma cleared out her desk at 5 AM.
Left the letter on his chair.
No drama. No scene.
Just two pages of gratitude.
"Thank you for teaching me what leadership isn't."
Then came her lessons:
"When you took credit for the Harrison campaign, you taught me to document everything."
"When you promised three promotions that never materialized, you taught me words without action mean nothing."
"When you ranked us against each other quarterly, you taught me competition inside kills collaboration."
"When you called weekend meetings for Monday's agenda, you taught me fake urgency is about control, not deadlines."
Fifteen examples.
Fifteen lessons.
Each one specific.
Each one true.
The worst part?
She meant every word.
No sarcasm. No bitterness.
Just genuine appreciation for the education.
"You showed me exactly the leader I refuse to become."
He found it Monday morning.
Read it once.
Read it again.
Read it again.
Called her cell.
Straight to voicemail.
His assistant heard something she'd never heard:
Nothing.
For twenty minutes, he sat there.
One of his best people.
Gone.
No notice.
No warning.
And every word aimed at him.
When he finally emerged, he asked:
"How many others feel this way?"
His assistant looked at the floor.
That told him everything.
Emma?
She's running her own team now.
They've never met her old boss.
But they know him.
Through every decision she doesn't make for them.
Every credit she doesn't take from them.
Every promise she keeps to them.
Her team thinks she's a natural leader.
They're wrong.
She was trained by the worst.
And learned exactly what not to do.
Sometimes the best teachers
are the ones who show you
exactly who you never want to be.
I own a small bakery. Business has been slow. Rent is up. I was thinking about closing.
Last Friday, a teenager came in. He looked nervous. He counted out change for a cookie. He was short 50 cents.
"It's okay," I said. "Take it."
He ate it at a table, looking at his math homework. He looked stuck.
I used to be a math tutor.
I walked over. "Quadratic equations?"
He nodded. "I don't get it."
I sat down and helped him for 20 minutes. He got it. He left smiling.
The next day, he came back with two friends. They bought cookies.
The day after that, five kids came.
Apparently, he told the school, "The lady at the bakery helps with homework."
Now, my bakery is the after-school hang-out spot. It's loud. It's messy. There are backpacks everywhere.
Yesterday, I found a note in the tip jar. It was wrapped around a $20 bill.
"Thanks for helping my son pass math. A Mom."
I'm not closing the bakery.
I think I finally found my purpose.
It's not cookies. It's community.
Saw a post that said, “You can be the prettiest shade of Green, but you’ll never be enough for someone whose favorite color is Blue.”
Compatability is so important and mostly overlooked.
Brethren... lend me thy eardrums!
Rasasi says they want us to enjoy the "Harrods exclusive" experience .
With that said.... the new Rasasi Hawas London is a dupe of Ex Nihilo Brompton Immortals Extrait (a Harrods exclusive)
I just say make I drop update.
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Do you ever wonder why Hillsong United don't release all the powerful songs they often give us every now and then any longer?
Hillsong New York was one of the fastest growing megachurches in NYC with average weekly attendance of over 7,000. They even had to expand to multiple locations and large venues to accommodate the crowds. It was commonly suggested that the Church was more popular than Jesus in NYC. The brand was that powerful.
There are usually long queues waiting for one service to finish so another can start. However following the sexual scandal involving their lead pastor Carl Lentz and the multiple cover ups, the church literally started to struggle and have since been facing severe attendance crisis with multiple empty seats.
This became worsened following sexual accusations involving their Founding Pastor Brian Houston leading church board to sack him. Things even became more complicated after the Australian government investigated Brian for covering up the sexual offences of his late father, Frank Houston.
The wife of Carl Lentz don't even go to church again, so many other people have stopped going to church that were former active of the church.
Given Hillsong NYC was started by Carl Lentz and Joel Houston, the scandal of Hillsong NYC directly affected Hillsong United which was directly under Hillsong NYC. Consequently, the sins of some selected people scattered one of the biggest church in the world and their music ministry.
Church cover up is dangerous and counterproductive, it pushes the wounded away from the faith while attempting to protect the guilty.
The Nigerian churches better learn from stories like this and stop the culture of protecting "integrity" at the expense of godly accountability.
In all of this, I am particularly happy for Carl Lentz because of his soberness and intentional pursuit of redemption.
This video does not represent Kingdom principles.