Life isn’t as serious as you’ve been told. There’s so many things more important than this.
If you find a woman that you get along with, that isn’t a pain in the butt, and that legitimately loves you, you’re literally a moron for giving into your basic instincts and rejecting her over her past.
That doesn’t negate your biology that tells you to avoid women who have slept around. That’s normal. But it’s also just biology. It’s literally your ape dna firing your endocrine system to fulfill vestigial concerns around biological replication.
None of this matters now because we don’t live in Hunter/Gatherer tribes.
But still. Do yourself a favor, and don’t ask.
@menlifelegacy Guys know about this.
You can take it one step further and hit on the hot girl’s uglier friend right in front of her. It drives them wild.
Meh.
I married a former model. We're 43 this year, so we've both lost our looks a bit. I'm sure all the coolest guys in the room are going to call me a "cuck" or something for this, but it's almost better.
It's annoying to go out with a very attractive woman. It's like walking through a lion's den with armful of meat. And I'll love her no matter what.
@SomethingLatin@BlackLabelAdvsr I'm not going to fall in to the trap of explaining basic concepts to you. If you're on a personal quest to delude yourself from the very simple observations of reality, then God speed.
@underground_net@ItsKingSlime It's a lot deeper than just the drugs. The drugs just activate the endocrine system. The problem is that the endocrine system was starved before the drugs were even discovered.
@ByrdBot@RockChartrand There are no "top AI companies." They're all huge tech conglomerates. You're being disingenous because you're more concerned about validating your presuppositions than being correct.
@PatientPadawan@BlackLabelAdvsr I'm not "pushing" it. I'm acknowledging the reality of it. Last I checked, I'm not the emperor of Earth, and neither are you.
Favor truth over anger and you'll have an easier time being correct.
@SolaTheAnalyst I'm old enough to remember when Hairball Trudeau got elected on his $10/day daycare nonsense. Which, naturally, ended up applying only to the same demo.
Same thing. Different day. This is an old and tired Liberal grift.
@dqveed I think you've missed the point, Dave.
I can count on zero hands the number of times I've seen women complain about lack of representation in coal mining.
That says something, even if you're too thick to intuit it.
@AI_EmeraldApple Given that I had no idea who these people were until this story starting invading my entire For You, I'll say they can claim Mission Accomplished.
@amazingatheist Ya, the backlash on this one is bizarre. Everything ranging from "i don't want to play as a girl" (what? tomb raider anyone?) to "the real life actress is way more attractive". The last point is really bizarre for anyone to worry about except maybe her.
@AI_EmeraldApple This is the real risk you run when dating a woman who is a lot more attractive than you. If she’s not a good person, the chances that you’re just a financial stepping stone for her is very high.
You're being unfair. I understand this completely, and it's less a function of this woman lacking will than it is of her lacking motivation.
Not self-motivation - that's just another word for will. She's lacaking societal motivation.
We don't care about our communities anymore because our communities don't care about us. The tremendous sacrifice it takes to have children makes a lot more sense in a community with high social cohesion. It motivates you by giving you something to preserve.
Perhaps the only calculation this woman has failed to correctly make is who takes care of her when she's old. What happens when her friends all start their own families and she's completely alone? As a 42 year old man, I wouldn't even want to know what my life would be like without the family I've built. They're almost literally all I have - and will definitely be all I have when my parents die.