Like, people should be able to live alone. Period. As an adult, any job that you work should be able to get you your own living space. The fact that this isn’t the reality is insanity to me.
it is draining to engage with people who think I’m arguing or personally attacking them every time I try to solve an issue or express my emotions. it creates mental exhaustion. if someone can’t tolerate you asking clarifying questions and sharing how you feel, keep your distance.