“The Unfakeable Code” by Tony J. Selimi (@TonyJSelimi) explores how upgrading your mindset can transform every area of life.
Available in audiobook & print formats at select retailers. The ebook is exclusively on Amazon.
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Grateful to see The Unfakeable Code® resonating inside this incredible book community. Authenticity is a rare currency in a world obsessed with performance.
For those who’ve explored the book: what’s one belief, behaviour, or story you realised you no longer need to carry?
Your insight might be exactly what someone else needs today. #ClimbGreaterHeights
"The Unfakeable Code" by Tony J. Selimi is a transformative guide to authenticity, inner healing, and lasting fulfillment.
Available in audiobook format on all major retailers, in print at select retailers, and as an e-book only on Amazon.
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Yes — and it’s far more common than most people are willing to name.
As a human behaviour expert working with high‑profile and influential couples, I regularly see parasocial dynamics from the receiving end — whether that’s a well‑known public figure dealing with an obsessive follower, or a partner navigating fixation and entitlement from an unresolved or obsessive ex.
These dynamics sit at the intersection of loneliness, projection, identity, and power. They are rarely about admiration. More often, they are about unmet emotional needs being externalised and attached to a symbol, a person, or a perceived source of safety or significance.
I’ve explored these themes extensively in my work and writing, including in:
A Path to Wisdom
#Loneliness
The Unfakeable Code
A Path to Excellence
and most recently through the lens of growth, boundaries, and responsibility in Climb Greater Heights
I’m happy to speak candidly for a feature and contribute informed perspective on:
how parasocial obsession forms and escalates
why visibility and perceived intimacy accelerate it
where healthy admiration ends and harmful fixation begins
and how individuals and couples can protect themselves without amplifying the problem
If you’re looking for nuanced insight grounded in real‑world cases rather than headlines, feel free to reach out.
What do you create when life burns everything down?
12 years ago, my answer became a book: A Path to Wisdom. Born from hardship, deep study, and lived truth. It went on to shape the TJS Evolutionary Method – ALARM® and the transformation of thousands.
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The liberal center is “consistently wrong about everything”.
But the Brexit right have demonstrated their political judgement since 2016 by
• taking the UK of out the EU
• championing Boris Johnson
• remaining silent on Trump or Nethanyahu’s domestic policies and foreign wars
• amplifying Trump and Musk’s insults to Britain and Europe -
Ten years. More to come.
And we can see the world their judgement and predictions are willing into being.