My desires in a relationship have changed over time. I no longer want someone who promises to always love me and never leave me, I need someone who understands that life happens and sometimes things don't work out. I don't want someone who sugar coats things and never gets angry with me, I need someone to tell me how it really is so I can grow. I need to be able to go five hours without talking and not feel lost or incomplete. I want us both to be complete without each other while knowing that together, we’re so much better. I want secure love. Mature love. A love that reconciles quickly after dispute and is comfortable in accountability. If it’s not this then I’m better off alone.
@TheKingOfImpact@thenewblockk And don’t forget to throw away those green gem while you’re at it and just wear rubies on your yacht
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At some point, loyalty to others becomes disloyalty to yourself. Continually giving someone access to you while they repeatedly wrong you doesn’t prove your strength, it teaches them that your boundaries are optional. Protecting your peace isn’t bitterness; it’s self-respect.