God literally gave us the power of choice and free will for a reason. We also need to take responsibility and accountability for what we choose to do and stay in. Cycles, love, friends, family, homes. All of it. He didnt give us life to choose suffering endlessly.
They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.
You have to realize these are the same people that said it's difficult to have lunch and save because lunch is $30 everyday. When someone suggested to make lunches at home to cut out spending $30 a day, they lost it then said they can't afford the groceries to make lunch at home.