NoLongerATrappedWife

Took 2 years to divorce a #narcissist, #NPD #Dissociative, alcoholic, #womanizer. Have child together. Account is for support. #narcissistabuse

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

I’ve been on twitter for years and recently started following so many of you...just couldn’t ever comment in fear I’d be exposed. Had to create this account.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

#DVAM2025

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

Years ago when I started this journey, I was warned by others. Once you leave the narc, they begin to abuse and project on the kids. This is true. My child endures so much trauma during visitations.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

Almost a year later. Same ole shit. Narcissists are truly sick in the mind. Manipulating. Lying, Abusive, and Ugly.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

You can always tell when a narcissist has found a new supply! Suddenly wants to attend church, actively trying to prove what a great parent they are, acts so empowered and better than usual! All a show! 🤡

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

Narcissists get new supply once the current love sees their true colors. There’s always a few on back up! Best believe that!

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

You can always tell when a narcissist has found a new supply! Suddenly wants to attend church, actively trying to prove what a great parent they are, acts so empowered and better than usual! All a show! 🤡

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

2 years since divorce was finalized. No longer being trapped. It has taken me this long to tweet again. Wanna know why? I had to rebuild myself. Now I’m watching the cycle repeat itself. My ex doing the same shit to new women. It’s sad. I wish I could warn them.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

This is where in the beginning, some struggle with recognizing that they are being abused. Because you think “but he/she is so great on the good days” Eventually, those goods days begin to fade out. I would hang onto those great days, thinking it would get better.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

BIG FACTS!!!!
(Except it’s spelt *Losers)

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

@RhiannaFord You won’t regret it!!! Your relationship with your children will be stronger because your energy will be more at ease! You will feel more love surrounding you by getting away from the constant roller coaster! I promise. Single mom of 2, the kids & I are much happier!

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

@NSurvivor Heavy alcohol drinker. I guess I denied it because I wasn’t sure what an alcoholic really truly is. But I know now! I always say, he sold me a dream and I bought it. They morph into who you desire. The alcohol in him intensified his outbursts and personality change.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

On visitations, my ex now gaslights our child, talks bad about me, and drills child with questions. Don’t narcs have anything better to do? Why does he do this?!? We’re not together anymore so why? What’s the freaking point! So sad that my child has to go through this.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

@BulliesTattoos Well at least you got to vent about the shitty trainer. I catch myself being triggered a lot and always assuming the worst. That’s how we were groomed and conditioned. It sucks! Im glad it’s all good ;)

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

@BulliesTattoos Chunk the deuces if that’s the case! I had to be assertive & tell my employer “I have nothing to lose if your not gonna support my rights” I found this job and I’ll find another! I don’t leave abuse to find myself in another abusive environment! Stand your ground.

[NoLongerATrappedWife @TrappedWife]

@BulliesTattoos Good luck girl!