@ThisAintPrince Must be exhausting to see everyone from the opposing gender as a sexual connection unless they’re deemed “too ugly” for it.
Straight people are in Jigoku
@magdalenacals This comes off more pretentious than you probably meant it to. You telling the wife IS the drama. It ain’t gonna just be a quick annulment and “See ya fella!” They have a kid together. You probably won’t ever think about them again… but they’ll remember you.
@eggvermifuge You are so fucking beautiful, seeing you thrive makes me want to try harder to have a better life. You’re quite literally inspiring to me!
The closer I get to my transition, the more connected to the Mother I become. She shows me that men could bring forth no change without the energy to focus on brought about by Yoni. Woman is change, man is the witness and lives to exalt her every move.
@Hood_infinite I worship a Goddess who slays demons and realizes pure spiritual ecstasy from the rebalancing of the universe. She is the only being in my religion who is called Mother. My father deity is by definition *Nothing* without the power that Mother springs forth.
Earlier this year I stopped showing my face without makeup and hair because I internalized the idea that trans women don’t deserve to be seen if we aren’t feminine when we don’t put in the effort
I recently had a doll early in her transition who’s struggling to get hair removal approach me at the club and let me know that I remind her that she can take her time. That it’s okay to not transition “perfectly” and immediately present in the way that the world expects of us and we want, especially when many of us struggle to keep a roof over our heads from discrimination.
Ive recently gotten a stable job, back on insurance and the tides are turning for me. So for her, I want to stop allowing that shame to inform how I show up.
Nearly 4 years into my transition I’m finally getting laser and electrolysis. I am in the planning stages of multiple surgeries I could only dream of just a few years back.
As I approach that I want to ensure that my message to dolls like her is clear. Be kind to yourself. Transitioning is an act of self actualization and love in a world that is often cold, cruel and unrelenting to us. I want every trans woman struggling to keep pushing forward at the pace they can and I hope that if I teach them anything, it’s that it’s okay to be messy or imperfect and still love yourself every step of the way.
You might even find that it reminds others that it’s okay for them too ❤️
I kinda realize why I stay off this app. This place capitalizes on niggas staying miserable in every facet of life. All I see are self fulfilling prophecies and negativity biases and then I realize why I didn’t have friends. Imma try to get off this shit again.
@FrenchieInExile wtf is wrong with you? This doom and gloom shit is what makes you unattractive, you seem to need everyone to be as miserable as you. There’s nothing abominable about you except the words you choose to speak. Log off and talk to actual fucking people.
A black woman in a bonnet out in public is like a Unicorn. Bonnets make my sistas look so fucking tea and gorgeous to me!
I’ll wear a bonnet with you baby hell… 🥰