You are admired only when you win. Until then, you are tolerated at best, mocked at worst, and invisible in between. This is the law of existence: success or contempt. The world does not pity the unsuccessful man, it condemns him.
I’m a firm believer that people’s actions make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. You just gotta realize it & take it for what it is.
One thing about children: they can sense kindness. They don't just run to anyone. They connect with people through genuine kindness & a pure spirit. Their souls are innocent, so they naturally gravitate toward those with good hearts.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.
You gotta appreciate the person who comes into your life and shows you that real love doesn’t have to feel like a constant battle. The one who listens, supports you, communicates, respects you, and brings peace instead of confusion. They make you realize you were never asking for too much… you were just giving your heart to the wrong person. I can handle life alone, but I don’t want to. I want somebody who pours into me while I pour right back into them.A love where neither person has to carry everything alone. That kind of love is rare. Don’t take it for granted!
Overcome yourself. Your fears. Your trauma. Your insecurities. Your toxic patterns. You don't need motivation, inspirations, and all that shit. You just need to sit with yourself and ask yourself "What the hell is stopping me from doing what I know I should".
I love for free. I don't keep score, I don't move with hidden motives, and I don't expect anything material back from nobody. When I show love, it's genuine. I show up because I want to, not because I'm looking for something in return. The only thing I ever expect is loyalty. Not perfection, not money, not favors. Just loyalty. Be solid with me the same way I'm solid with you. Don't smile in my face and move weird behind my back. Don't switch up when you're not benefiting from me. I can deal with a lot, but I can't deal with fake. Love is easy for me, but trust is earned, and loyalty is non negotiable. If you can't give me that, then it don't matter how much love I got, you won't get access to it.
I gravitate toward the misfits. The black sheep, the oddballs, the eccentrics, the artists, and the loners. The people who think for themselves, stay true to their values, and aren’t easily swayed by the crowd. They often have the most genuine and beautiful soułs.
I don’t owe consideration to people who never considered me. Access, grace, and understanding are earned, not automatically given. The same energy you give is the same energy you can expect back. I make people stand on how they treat me. Accountability doesn’t expire.✍️
you have to find peace with never receiving an apology from people who are unable to recognize their faults and not being real enough to heal. you'll lose your sanity trying to get a selfish person to understand you. you can't help everyone heal. leave them where they had you fucked up.