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Resisting Negativity 4.27.2019

Some people are carriers of negativity. They are storehouses of pent ­up anger and volatile emotions. Some remain trapped in the victim role and act in ways that further their... https://t.co/KCgLPqw3Q7

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Finding Our Own Truth 4.25.2019

We must each discover our own truth. It does not help us if those we love find their truth. They cannot give it to us. It does not help if someone we love knows a particular... https://t.co/w5HhjqFZ6B

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Lessons on the Job 4.25.2019

Often, the spiritual and recovery lessons we're learning at work reflect the lessons we're learning in other areas of our life. Often, the systems we're attracted to in our... https://t.co/U1uaATNoGZ

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Opening Ourselves to Love 4.24.2019

Allowing ourselves to receive love is one of the greatest challenges we face in recovery. Many of us have blocked ourselves from receiving love. We may have lived with... https://t.co/f10vPkRwSo

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Coping with Stress 4.23.2019

Inevitably, there are times of stress in our lives, no matter how long we've been in recovery. Sometimes, the stress is outside or around us. We're feeling balanced, but our... https://t.co/xTdM4rUK79

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Waiting 4.22.2019

Wait. If the time is not right, the way is not clear, the answer or decision not consistent, wait. We may feel a sense of urgency. We may want to resolve the issue by doing... https://t.co/3evy6YRcAA

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Deadlines 4.21.2019

I don't know whether I want in or out of this relationship. I've been struggling with it for months now. It's not appropriate to let it hang indefinitely. I will give myself two months... https://t.co/5HuvgxIGB6

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Accepting Change 4.20.2019

The winds of change blow through our life, sometimes gently, sometimes like a tropical storm. Yes, we have resting places—time to adjust to another level of living, time to get... https://t.co/k8SgtJht7P

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Freedom 4.18.2019

Many of us were oppressed and victimized as children. As adults, we may continue to keep ourselves oppressed. Some of us don't recognize that caretaking and not setting boundaries will... https://t.co/MkhWt6XY49

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Taking Care of Ourselves 4.18.2019

We often refer to recovery from codependency and adult child issues as ''self­care.'' Self­care is not, as some may think, a spin­off of the "me generation." It isn't... https://t.co/UtDFeldcqx

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Letting Things Happen 4.17.2019

We do not have to work so hard at gaining our insights. Yes, we're learning that painful and disappointing things happen, often for a reason and a higher purpose. Yes, these... https://t.co/drHwSAsAAD

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Enjoyment 4.15.2019

One of the prohibitions many of us learned in childhood is the unspoken rule Don't have fun and enjoy life. This rule creates martyrs—people who will not let themselves embrace the... https://t.co/pWj6Jm3lK7

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Letting Go of Fear 4.13.2019

Picture yourself swimming—floating—peacefully down a gentle stream. All you need to do is breathe, relax, and go with the flow. Suddenly, you become conscious of your... https://t.co/bI9EvGWcnm

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Financial Goals 4.12.2019

Taking responsibility for our financial affairs will improve our self­-esteem and lessen anxiety. Each of us, today, has a present set of financial circumstances. We have a certain... https://t.co/KL1LdqA3dK

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Using Others to Stop Our Pain 4.11.2019

Our happiness is not a present someone else holds in his or her hands. Our well­being is not held by another to be given or withheld at whim. If we reach out and try... https://t.co/9kMdD59KJi

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Giving 4.10.2019

Learning to be a healthy giver can be a challenge. Many of us got caught up in compulsive giving—charitable acts motivated by uncharitable feelings of guilt, shame, obligation, pity, and... https://t.co/JM9IJda20g

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Those Old­ Time Feelings 4.7.2019

I still have bad days. But that's okay. I used to have bad years. - Anonymous

Sometimes, the old feelings creep back in. We may feel fearful, ashamed, and hopeless. We... https://t.co/qkw7U2ahqF

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Patience 4.7.2019

How sick and tired we may become of people telling us to be patient or to learn patience. How frustrating it can be to want to finally have something, or to move forward, and then not have... https://t.co/OYutSqInso

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Detaching in Love 4.5.019

Detachment is a key to recovery from codependency. It strengthens our healthy relationships—the ones that we want to grow and flourish. It benefits our difficult relationships—the... https://t.co/VPQstGbWY5

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Negotiating Conflicts 4.5.2019

Recovery is about more than walking away. Sometimes it means learning to stay and deal. It's about building and maintaining relationships that work.
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