As a man, your class can be confused as sass. But what separates the two is one is an emotionally triggered reaction while the other is a response of emotional intelligence n navigation
And there are times when ppl are doing things or creating chaos for the sake of getting a reaction from you… That still has nothing to do with you(mostly), and more to do with what someone is having challenges with internally n potentially projecting onto you for various reasons
Most external discrepancies have nothing to do with you or anything you’ve done/said. It’s less personal than it feels most times. A lot of times, we place ourselves in the line of fire with entitled behavior or self-importance… it most likely has nothing to do with you lol
I’ve notice when I confront a situation or express myself about a discrepancy I may peep, I’m not always seeking for external resolution. Sometimes the resolution is the releasing of tension I may potentially be holding within my body.
I honor my energy over being socially accepted or fitting. I honor my energy over being romantically compromising. I honor my energy over shrinking for others’ comfort. I honor my energy over any group-think or hivemind that insinuates divisiveness because of differences.
All stemming from second hand information and hive-minded opinion. The true war is incepted from within and projected in our interactions and transactions
all of these micro wars amongst one another online; debating and disagreeing to no resolution or mutual willingness to understand or accept alternative truths.
Sometimes our own zeitgeist creates walls where we only see our suffering; and blind to the suffering of the ones who may differ in customs and traditions.