@adathelearner@derrickazije That’s literally the exact opposite of the truth. No amount of coparenting love can mitigate the traumatic stress of having a “dads house” and a “moms house” and going back and forth.
And of course, there will always be single-mothers who defend co-parenting. Like anything that implicates them, it is hard to dissociate the objective reality of a situation with their view of themselves.
It’s hard to look in the mirror and admit “Hey I made some really shitty decisions because of my feelings, pride, ego, stubbornness, fear, etc. that have forever negatively impacted my child…”
@princenabriasa Disagree studies actually show it does more for children than breaking up and again we’ve been sold a terrible dream because you create different attachment style
@Its_RianM@JENNontheRocks_ Atlanta has decided to tackle it from a municipality level NYC is doing it on a city level. The USDA funding Atlanta used has been cut by commanding dickhead in office .
https://t.co/R5QfEZCMvX
@HailyQyugr@NekieNek__@BBCbelieveme I was more so speaking to women specifically but I think it’s an absolutely good reason for a women to leave temporarily or an extended time.
@britsalterego@GabTheGem “Parental separation is considered a toxic stressor, an experience that engages strong and prolonged activation of the body’s stress-management system (Bridgman, 2014).”
https://t.co/jVIOuYQeqJ
@britsalterego@GabTheGem Because neither of realize that there’s no such thing as healthy co-parenting. The simple act of living in two homes is traumatic to the child.
@huggableheartz@bi6Esha@GabTheGem I don’t believe you have the cognitive load to have this conversation as just three comments down it’s sourced directly.
And you’re not even an American.
@iyannayaya1@GabTheGem All 96 studies ever done on co-parenting. There has yet to be a single study that ever produces equal outcomes when normalized for income in co-parenting. That’s over 50 years of research.
https://t.co/TPR4o2TTtv