As a woman, I fight everyday to learn how to be calm and soft. Iโm so use to having my guard up to the point itโs weird to soften up at times. I pray to God everyday to continue to guide me on this journey because in all honesty I do want to be a SOFT woman. I want to be able to trust and not always be so defensive during certain situations. As you get older, you have to look at yourself and make changes for you and your life for the better ๐