If he listens to you in the bedroom while you tellin him what you like & don’t like…then he BETTER be listening to you in every other room too. Boundaries. Respect. Thank you
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.