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π B.A. Linguistics | Second Class Upper! π₯
Better By Far! ππ€ Excellence achieved, dreams alive, and greater heights ahead. The journey continues, and the best is yet to come my sister π
@Wizarab10 Money no get favourite. No be say some people deserve am pass you; na just say everybody journey no be the same. Focus on building yourself, improving your value and positioning yourself for opportunities. Your current situation no be your final destination.
The real flex is financial freedom. Being able to afford your lifestyle, handle your responsibilities, and enjoy your life without constantly depending on anyone. Thatβs the kind of wealth I pray for.
God will not come down from heaven to fix Nigeria. We have to take responsibility, demand accountability, and stop rewarding the same failures we complain about. Prayer is important, but so is action. π³π¬
@Skolex5 Family support is a bill many Nigerians pay monthly but never include in their budget. You canβt plan your finances as if youβre the only person depending on your income.
Sometimes, people respond to what they think you meant rather than what you actually said. You can have a personal opinion without trying to impose it on everyone. Once youβve clarified your intention, let it go. π
Let's clear the air on the post I made some days ago.
I think context matters, and sometimes, people can interpret the same statement differently.
I said, "Till today, I still always feel like First Class starts from 4.8+." I wasn't setting a standard or saying it should start there.
It was my personal opinion, not a rule. I wasn't trying to make anyone with a CGPA below 4.8 feel less of themselves, neither was I trying to bully anyone because I have a perfect 5.0 CGPA. I was simply expressing how my mindset is wired.
The painful part is that people who weren't even on X got to hear about it because of the negative way it was interpreted. Now, there's an extra effort needed to help people maintain a positive mindset.
My point is simple: no matter your CGPA or achievements, don't think less of yourself. Keep a positive mindset and believe in what you can become.π
Anyways, life continues π
Stage 5 na when life don humble you reach the point wey you just want peace, money, and a better life. Social media go become secondary. You no dey avoid people, you just dey face your reality.
e go reach one stage for your life wey you go stop dey watch movies, you no go dey post for your status again, you go stop dey snap pictures, even to reply dms go dey tire you, no worry na stage 5 be that
Society will judge a woman by her past but praise a man for overcoming his.
If people can change, then that grace should be available to both genders. Your past should be a lesson, not a life sentenceβbut accountability must apply to everyone.
"She is for the streets" you can't marry her and expect loyalty; But you believe that the past of a man who was a gΞ±ngstar, drvg lord, etc. doesn't really matter if he's changed right?
Society is full of double standards.
@ayam_Chizzy ππ Future self go still meet the person wey make the decision. But honestly, some people see tattoos as art and self-expression, while others see them as something they might regret later. Different strokes for different folks.
Some inherited wealth, while others inherited responsibilities and the struggle to survive.
We may not have much to start with, but we pray our children will inherit the fruits of our sacrifices, not the struggles we endured.
May our efforts never be in vain. πβ€οΈ
Some people inherited businesses, houses, and wealth.
Some of us inherited struggles and responsibilities.
We are starting with little or nothing, hoping that our children will have a better foundation than we did.
May our efforts yield good fruits. π
@vuga001 ππ Relationship no be only G-spot, na trust, communication, respect and emotional connection too. You fit find the G-spot and still lose the whole relationship.
@Ayodejman_ Ego makes people defensive, but a willingness to learn helps you grow. Not every correction is an attack; sometimes, itβs someone helping you become better.
"You just assume you go die before your wife."
What do you think a will implies?
Will is written in the event you die first. It doesn't mean you'll die first. Your beneficiary fit die before you. Life is unscripted.
If you die before your wife, na bad thing? I don't get the fuss
Some people need to understand that writing a will doesn't mean you're expecting death. It means you're taking responsibility for what happens to your assets and loved ones when you're no longer around.
"You just assume you go die before your wife."
What do you think a will implies?
Will is written in the event you die first. It doesn't mean you'll die first. Your beneficiary fit die before you. Life is unscripted.
If you die before your wife, na bad thing? I don't get the fuss