There many unsent drafts about your feelings and you try to send them and get back to not sending, because the other person will think you are nothing without them...
It's very easy to give up and very hard to maintain what you have
Be greatful for everything you have...
quick story time.
something i genuinely thought iโd never share on the internet:
23 years. never been in a relationship.
not because i didnโt date.
iโve been on 100+ dates lol.
i just never met someone i felt sure enough about.
and obviously, i had designed what my first relationship would look like:
โ probably date a founder
โ someone whose life looked somewhat like mine
โ same city
โ eventually live together
โ date for 2-ish years, then maybe get married
very neat. very convenient. very me.
then around a month ago,
i met someone who was almost none of those things.
the first 20-25 days were ridiculously long conversations, 6-7 hour video calls and trying to steal as much time together as possible. our biggest โlong distanceโ problem was whitefield to koramangala ๐ญ
and then he went back to duty.
turns out dating someone in the armed forces changes your definition of long distance very quickly.
- almost overnight, 6-hour calls became 1-minute calls.
- sometimes 4-5 minutes across 4 days.
- video calls on weekends if life allows.
- absolutely no idea when weโll speak next.
coming from someone who was convinced she could NEVER do long distance, this is quite a plot twist.
i wanted proximity and got distance.
i wanted similar lives and got completely different worlds.
i wanted predictability and gotโฆ none lol.
but i guess you can plan life all you want. when something feels right, you somehow figure out the parts you never planned for.
no idea where this goes.
for now, iโm just enjoying this-cute little plot twist in my life. hehe.
fingers crossed :)
Everytime when you need answers to your Questions go back to Bhagawad Gita, Mahabharat and Ramayan...
You will definitely get your answers...
Humans change according to their profits and the human who doesn't changed based on their profits are yours forever.
I have not met a single girl till now, who doesn't smoke or drink ...
Just to look cool and to be the part of some shitty community
Where are we heading as a generation?
P.s : I am a teetotaler.