Stingy people are users. They will take and take and take until you have nothing else to give. They hate themselves and they hate you too. The world will forever be small and limited in their eyes.
I get that we are having conversations about the traumatic aspect of why people are like that but still, it gets to a point you have to work on yourself man especially for someone so self aware like that babe.
See the way she just casually says “that’s how I am” no introspection, nothing.
If Dayo was like that she won’t have made it out alive when she was jobless.
A man carried you for years financially you spend 150k on his birthday and almost developed brain aneurysm. A very ridiculous babe.
there are people who write more honestly in a language they learned later in life than in the one they grew up speaking. and that sounds strange until you realize that your first language absorbed every rule your culture ever had about what's appropriate to say out loud, what feelings are acceptable to name, how much honesty is too much honesty at a dinner table. and sometimes a second language arrives with none of that-it's just words. clean ones. and in those clean words some peoplefinally say the
-thing they were never given permission to say in the language that raised them. that's what language actually does before it's had time to learn your family's rules.
Literally everyone deserves to go out for dinner, buy coffees, wear quality clothing and have fun experiences whilst also being able to afford rent, groceries, bills & have a little left over for savings no matter what job they do. Why is that so absurd to some people?
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
I love being a parent and I don’t think it’s hard. I DO however think that it’s not for everyone and if people were more honest like this person, less people would have kids on a whim.
I actually can answer this: the industry changed so much in the last 3 yrs. streaming replaced radio & I was a radio darling. That’s how my fans discovered my music. Not to mention the very obvious & public attack on my career changed things.
But I’m out here doing my absolute best and u can’t knock a bitch for that 🫶🏾
i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.