Bilal Usman

Make the most of your life.
Football Lover.
Advocate of peace!

[Bilal Usman @UsmanNdagib]

@praisejohnn Happy birthday 🎂🎈

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@neo_officialll Harry Kane is the most deserving. Besides, Mbappe didn't win any club trophy only individual accolades.

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@kenkenlewu Exactly. This is the world of social media, everybody is perfect and a saint.

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@Morris_Monye Yes sir, it's very possible. Some are forced to open an Opay account because their friend(s) saw their name and sent money. Many people had been complaining about it for a while.

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@General_Oluchi I feel the same way too.

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@DanielRegha "The game was very dull"? Obviously you didn't watch the game. Probably you checked Livescore.

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@DrJoeAbah Sir, she has earn it. May God bless your home.

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@UTDIMole Higuain.

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@UTDMael Back to Ac Milan.

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@UTDMael Andres Iniesta.

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@queenbeth____ Happy birthday. 🎉

[Aspiring Billionaire SAN⚖️ @UsmanAbidemiEsq]

The position of Islam is that a must provide for his family. Emphasis on must because there is no excuse. You must take care of your own family, your parents and immediate family (wife and children) being priority. However, does this position now means women must not support their if they can? The answer is No. Islam is not against a woman supporting her husband, most especially if she can afford to do so and her husband is still struggling.

If you see women saying they can’t help a man pay school fee or support him, the problem is more cultural and in some aspects religious. Many of our women grew up learning that concept from their mothers, and they watched their fathers take all responsibilities without any form of support from their wives. So, only the very few who grew up in families where husbands and wives support each other tend to have a different perspective.

Muslim ladies are extreme in this regard, and Islamic preachers are not helping matters either. You will hear some of them constantly saying that a man is supposed to carry 100% of the financial responsibilities, yet they barely talk about how Islam does not prohibit a woman from supporting her husband if she has the ability to do so.

In fact, some of them have made it seem as though a woman helping or supporting her husband financially is a bad omen. They make it look Haram. They rarely preach to these young ladies that the Prophet himself received support from his wife, Khadijah. Khadijah literally married the Prophet when he had little materially. They lived comfortably largely through Khadijah’s support. Anyone who disagrees should point out what business or job the Prophet did at that time that could surpass Khadijah’s wealth, and also provide evidence showing that Khadijah stopped supporting him and that they lived solely on the Prophet’s income despite her being wealthier.

Marriage should be built on compassion, mercy, and kindness. It is a partnership between two adults. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman contributing to the family if she is capable of doing so. It is not haram. No hadith prohibits it. It is not a bad omen. It is simply human nature to help someone you love. Yes, any man who is capable of providing 100% is reasonably expected to do so. In fact, as a man, if you are wealthy enough, there is no need to stress your wife financially. However, at the same time, a Muslim man who is still struggling deserves a kind and supportive partner.

Muslim women need to stop being selfish while hiding under the phrase, “My money is my money, and my husband’s money is our money.” There is a difference between understanding one’s rights and being unnecessarily wicked or inconsiderate. If a woman truly loves her husband, she will not comfortably watch him struggle financially while carrying every burden alone. Scholars also need to be more honest and balanced when explaining Islamic principles. They should stop discussing the rights of husbands and wives without emphasizing that kindness, compassion, mercy, and mutual support are what truly sustain a successful marriage.

Thank you.

Usman A. Lanase Esq
31-05-2026.

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@FavorGrace90 Ameen.

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@sejodu Congratulations. ❤️

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@BashirElRufai This reply is goated.😂😂🤣

[Invaluablemoi ♥️ Ayékòótó 🦜 @Invaluablemoi]

Two kinds of women.
The one who asked the question and the lady in blue who replied her.

Men, There are good women. Just make sure you are making the right choice and not choosing for the wrong reasons.

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@AjeboDanny Good advice. ✅

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@arojinle1 Happy birthday, sir. I wish you long life and prosperity. May Allah increases you with good health and wisdom. Ameen.

[MICHAEL @Mikkypels]

E reach Bruno turn to win award them dey Shout say gk and defenders did better than him, when Ronaldo & Messi dey win ballon d'or defenders and gk no dey that time abi😂😂. Ema ku seh 😂😂😭

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@InibeheEffiong @carmseea This is more than entitlement.