i stayed loyal to a man who continuously hurt me, lied to me, ignored me, hid things from me, watched me break into a million pieces with o zero emotions on his face but at the end of it all, still told me he loved me so much.
Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a bale of clothes outside under the sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends.
Maybe we need a public database documenting goons, their faces, the politicians who hire them and the violence they are accused of committing, so Kenyans can identify them and deal with them immediately they are spotted in public?
Whenever someone starts a statement or an argument with,
"Me as a doctor"
"Me as a professor"
"Me as a lawyer"
"Me as a journalist"
"Me as an expert"
Whatever the person is going to say next is bulshit and to gaslight you.
Don't even respond.
Heavy on the "thank you God" not for materialistic or tangible things, but for always making a way for me, keeping my head above water, and counting me in when people thought they had the power to count me out.
We’ve all seen that uncle at the bar: “Huyu bibi yangu ni sumbua” while buying rounds. Same uncle goes home to eat her food. Bro 😂. Respect starts at home.
Ladies, please be mindful of who you choose to have a child with. Every child deserves to come into a space where their mother is loved, valued, and fully supported.
My dad cheated on my mother with a lady with one leg shorter than the other one. My mother walked around the house limping, she said maybe that's what he wanted.
A man will choose himself in every situation and not feel bad about it. Meanwhile women be losing sleep, overthinking, trying to understand. Be selfish too. Protect your peace the same way he protect his. Cause they not losing themselves over you, so don’t lose yourself over them