~𝘾𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙤𝙣~

BTS & ATEEZ (and many more) | Psicóloga en proceso | ●□𝑷𝒔𝒚𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒊𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔...■○

[🦇𝓟𝓻𝓲𝓼𝓬𝓲𝓵𝓵𝓪🩸 @HazyMelancholy]

Hay algo muy misógino en esa idea de que las mujeres que se visten de rosa y usan vestidos están pretendiendo ser nenitas.

Tratar de pelotudita a una mujer por usar una pollera rosa no es el discurso revolucionario que ustedes creen.

[siri :o @doomfwsabi]

los hombres son tan aburridos, ninguno tiene una personalidad y si uno la tiene seguro se la robó a una mujer

[ashton @geekatron2500]

we put dogs down for biting but not grown men down for rape?

[🦢 @loungingmee]

“Protect your daughters.”

NO.

Raise sons who intervene.
Raise sons who understand consent.
Raise sons who DO NOT protect their friends when their friends harm women.

[Shannon @gardengirl125]

Every single woman has a story about a man making her scared or uncomfortable in some way. Every. One.

[fer 🐞 @ivysdl]

las mujeres somos las únicas que compartimos posts acerca de los abusos, desapariciones y muertes de las mujeres, somos las únicas que esparcimos lo que nos sucede. nunca verás a un hombre compartir ese tipo de información pq jamás será un problema que les afecte a ellos (tibios)

[𝔥𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔬𝔨𝔢𝔯𝔰 𝔣𝔞𝔭𝔲𝔩𝔞 @opoonaforwii]

I learned english because i wanted to play video games actually

[soso 🇵🇪 VERÁ A BTS (3days) @97milkjk]

Que fue, no tenías chamba en el congreso o qué?? Encima con un policía🫪

[𝑚𝑎𝑖❀ @veryfinemelanin]

Nobody is more stressed than a 19-25yr old thinking they're running out of time

[lo 🦭 @packersloren]

No matter where you stand on the Lindsay Clancy case, I think it’s wild that men are using it to say women should not have the right to vote.

[🐻 @woman0fwise]

Reminder that Men need laws to tell them not to marry little girls

[𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗲 @OcasoenelMAR]

La reputación de muchos hombres está a salvo gracias al silencio de muchas mujeres y la de las mujeres está manchada gracias a las mentiras de muchos hombres.

[Soso @sosothiery]

“El feminismo no hizo nada por mí”
Flaca estudias, trabajas, elegis cuando casarte, ser madre, podes manejar, escuchar música, elegir tu creencia, viajar sola, VOTAS Y PODES OPINAR

[skilert ⁷ saw bts/ltb @leedariskill]

"just leave the fandom" is another example of how society always wants women to leave. to ignore. to act as if nothing happened. to keep our mouths shut.

[kaki @jeondengoso]

um recado para todas que irão se despedir e seguir em frente:

seja você army há 10 anos ou ha 5 meses, você não foi menos fã, não foi falsa, não foi dramática muito menos deixou eles para trás por um erro “bobinho”. você, acima de TUDO é uma mulher +

[Sunny? vai ver o BTS @yoonniejiminie]

provavelmente vou começar a tratar igual trato qualquer outro artista q escuto
Bruno Mars lançou música? quando tiver tempo escuto
Sabrina Carpenter tá concorrendo no AMAs?
vamos ver se ela ganha né
Kendrick sofrendo racismo no Grammy
puts o q esperar de uma premiação racista

[mag @wildflwrm]

Everyone keeps saying they're disappointed in BTS but let me tell you, the amount of respect I lost for many women within this fandom in the last 2 days has been crazy. God forbid

[juls 𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ🐇་༘࿐ SAW WAB ETERNAL @julslovesmochi]

As an ARMY, I've been thinking a lot about the conversations surrounding BTS and how quickly they can become extremely polarized

I genuinely believe BTS are good people, and I don't believe there was malice behind their actions. But I also believe that they made a wrong move, and I think it's completely fair to be disappointed by that

Being a fan doesn't mean we have to pretend that everything an artist does is okay but I also don't think people should be labelled as abusers simply because they attended that concert. We shouldn't turn disappointment into a reason to spread accusations or hateful narratives

I don't think being an ARMY means I have to defend every decision BTS makes. I can love and believe in them as people, while still being disappointed when they make a wrong choice. I can continue to support them as artists while acknowledging when they've made mistakes and believing that, as human beings, they are capable of learning, growing, and doing better

Holding someone accountable doesn't have to mean believing they are beyond redemption,I think people can be disappointed in someone's actions while still leaving room for them to reflect, take responsibility, and grow

And I don't want my love for them to ever make me dismissive of women's experiences or make women feel like they have to prove their pain before they're worthy of being heard. I think we can hold both things at once: care for the artists we love, and care about the people who may have been hurt

So instead of contributing to this cycle of hostility, I wanted to do something constructive. I’ve put together a resource with organizations around the world that work to prevent violence against women and support survivors
If we're going to have these conversations, I'd rather turn that energy into something that actually helps

UN Trust Fund to End Violence against Women
Supports organizations around the world working to prevent violence against women and girls and supports survivors.
https://t.co/C6rkjQyaph

Global Fund for Women
Funds feminist organizations and movements around the world working toward gender justice, including freedom from violence.
https://t.co/iSz7aHwHm9

Equality Now
Works internationally to advance the rights of women and girls through legal reform and advocacy, including work addressing sexual violence, child marriage, and sexual exploitation.
https://t.co/XKIx948Rp0

Center on Global Rights for Women
Works with partners around the world to end gender-based violence through survivor-centered approaches, legal and policy reform, training, and institutional change.
https://t.co/vlcLikaplu

We don’t have to choose between loving the artists and caring about the people who may have been hurt.
We can do both🤍

[mai 🇨🇴 @ikoogi97]

pana yo NO entiendo nada, cuando alguien ofende a bts todas saltamos a defender y ahora este tipo le dice puta a una army y no pasa nada hijueputa en serio van a permitir q nos traten así??? alguien haga algo 😭😭😭😭