Alhamdulillah, my nikah is scheduled for this coming Friday, in shā’ Allāh. I sincerely request your du'as for Allah's blessings, guidance, and a joyful marriage. Jazakum Allahu khayran.
Got rejected by the Fourth Guy's they sent for marriage rishtas..
First one earned 12 LPA, I earn 19. His mother said “ladka inferior feel karega, shaadi nahi chalegi.”
Second boy’s family asked if I will quit after marriage and sit at home making roti. I said no. They left.
Third One; This time the boy himself said it. “Aap zyada padhi likhi ho, ghar sambhalna mushkil hoga.”
Fourth one wanted a girl who looks 22 at 28, cooks like his maa, and still brings 20 LPA. I showed them my offer letter and my 1BHK rent receipt. They asked for my father’s property papers instead.
In this country a girl can study, grind, pay tax, still she is “too much” if she doesn’t also become unpaid maid + baby machine. Patriarchy wants my salary and my silence together. These boys and their families can keep looking.
I’m done lowering myself for people who think my worth starts after I touch their kitchen.
You are allowed to experience joy while things in your life are unresolved. If you postpone happiness until everything is perfect, you’ll be postponing it forever.
just because i am young, a newbie and most importantly an intern that's why i don't get respect but i will remember this behaviour towards me and the people involved
times changes for everyone and i will make sure it does for the better
They f*cking put mobile jammers at the crash site in Delhi. The children were sending videos to get rescued, people were calling Blinkit ambulances...and they put jammers!!! We are living in an extended Black Mirror episode in this country! dystopian present continuous!