idc too many people on here treat being a lesbian like an aesthetic instead of an actual sexuality and i’m tired of hearing all the non lesbians go “it’s not a big deal” when we’re talking about literal erasure
i’m genuinely flabbergasted as to how we’re still having “lesbians can like men” discourse… if lesbians “can like men”then where is the sexuality for women who do not like men ?!?!???
omg idgaf feel free to call me exclusionist for saying lesbians are not attracted to men in any capacity and men cannot be lesbian in any way shape or form wah wah wahhhh
Being attracted to multiple genders across the spectrum is inherently queer as it goes against the heteronorm, monosexism, & the gender binary.
Biphobia is real & bisexuals are oppressed for being bi in a way that isn't just homophobia.
Some links to get started 👇
Oh, fuck right off!
Saying that you like men and claim to be a lesbian at the same time IS corrective rape apologia!
Leave lesbians alone for fuck sake!!
@supesbutch El decir que una lesbiana gusta de hombre también da una plantación de rape coercion 😭😭😭 de rodilla que entiendas que las lesbianas no pueden gustar de hombres porque daña la etiqueta, invalidan sus experiencias y el como las personas lo pueden usar para violentarnos
Las lesbianas podrían explicar con peras y manzanas porque es dañino decir que las lesbianas gustan o se sienten atraídas por hombres y a todes ustedes les seguiría valiendo verga
UNA cosa te están pidiendo que respeten
our rights are actively being threatened (and in some countries, were never there to begin with) and we’re still more preoccupied on the labels someone uses.
im gay and could really care less if a pan person called themself gay too
@supesbutch SI SOMOS, Se siente como repetir el discurso de por qué la lesbofia si existe y es diferente a la homofobia
Literalmente existe una sección de porno que trata de violar lesbianas para convertirla, crees que no es dañino que una lesbiana venga a decir que le gustan los hombres?
and it’s implications in present society.
tbh i really don’t give a fuck what some people call themselves. but i do care about how thoroughly and quickly non-lesbians will jump down the throat of lesbians who express very reasonable discomfort and refuse to understand them
i understand why some people identified as bi lesbian during the separatist movement. i understand that some systems use bi lesbian to account for the sexualities of alters.
i don’t think that completely erases all validity to the concerns many lesbians have with the label (+)
i read through every single one of these just so that i could be sure in what i am about to say: i want you to notice that none of these say i am bisexual AND a lesbian
the contradictory descriptors used here are primarily queer slang/gender terms and not specific labels