@Clay_The_Fox if you wanna talk more in DMs I'm available.
I also felt stuck and unhappy for so many years until I figured out I was a girl all along and I was always just too scared to really do that exploration by myself.
Ask people for help, try things out. 💜
One thing I've learned since I've become a girl is to kiss girls you just need to be somewhat pretty (not by your own standards, just ask other girls for advice) and decently sociable.
Then you just go out and it happens at some point. It's not that hard :3
@Clay_The_Fox Even if you feel like there's nothing to be proud of for yourself, you can always be proud to still be here, walking on this beautiful planet with all of us by your side. Take your time, don't stress yourself out. It'll get better. 🫶
@Clay_The_Fox Figuring out who you are is a lifelong process and not a race. Don't rush yourself. Even if you're unsure and still figuring things out, there are people who accept you and like you. You being happy with yourself is the most important thing of all.
Transitioning really is the initial act of autonomy, it's so sad how many people are too scared to do it without external approval, for once to no longer be ruled by the whims of authority, law, faulty biology, the world would rather we die, and you choose to not be born, shame
having received a total of ZERO sexual attention from girls in my most formative years, i don't think I'll ever get used to random gorgeous girls constantly hitting on me lmao
it's just such a wonderful shock each time and so validating.
being a girl is awesome 😋😋
i didn't wanna believe it when i was younger but growing up really does make you stop giving a fuck about lgbtq identity discourse. like why would i care