Most heartache in polyamory is lack of clarity about primary/secondary. We can be tempted to treat a primary mate like 2nd place.
Maybe weird but tbh so helpful—I text my Primary from a Pixel 4A & my Secondary from a MUCH smaller Unihertz Jelly Star—reminds me of my priorities🤷♀️
@anna_rebowska One from many reasons autistics evolved was to warn our communities of catastrophic scenarios and advise our family and friends on how to avoid them - bravo Elon Musk and Greta Thunburg.
Most guys are actual NPC’s. If I jab their gf’s tummy with my car keys they get flustered & try to usher her away from me. & I’m like dude I have a literal gun lol you’re only going to make me inflict greater suffering upon you for trying to flee. I just wanted to test its squish