Violet

30's. Tinder Spreadsheet. Dating Blog. Love, life, heartache.

[Violet @VioletDates]

I wore my bee socks today. Socks with bees on them.
Bees! 🐝
This isn't why I'm still single, is it? Surely not.
Who doesn't love bees?
#SaveTheBees

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@my2ndsinglelife My memory is a lot worse and I have new ADHD symptoms cropping up. I chalk it up to collective trauma and insomnia/sleep deprivation. Maybe it's more than that.😅

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I'm too wise and settled to make poor drunk texting decisions out of loneliness. Sometimes I'm sad about that. 😂

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Sometimes you just need a good shoulder to sink your teeth into. Best I can do right now is romantasy novels and Hozier.

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@supermarkusa Forehead kisses are a precious currency.

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@absolutelyamyyy I used to but there isn't a need these days. I typically separate by hang-dry, dryer-friendly loads, sheets or cleaning cloths. I only separate by colour if it will run (rare these days!), are very dirty, or temp sensitive.

[Violet @VioletDates]

After spending so long in functional freeze and finally *working towards specific things* and *take care of shit* again that second one is kind of a head turner.

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The universe is working on teaching me two lessons simultaneously at this time.
1. Seize opportunities. Specifically, grab the first opportunity that comes along. You snooze you lose, and there will be consequences.

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2. Let go and forget about your timeline. Despite working towards hard goals for the first time in ages, and really working to push things along and make them happen, the universe is telling me to let go. I guess you can't hurry things along.

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@my2ndsinglelife I love high tea! Let's go~ 🫖

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So many times!

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@JoJodieJodes

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Me: I live in perpetual burnout, I'm too tired and busy to properly take care of things, way too stressed out, and prefer solitude to interpersonal messes.
Me: Buuuut I miss flirting. Maybe I need to hop on the dating apps to find people to flirt with.
🤷‍♀️

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@my2ndsinglelife Sending hugs!

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@my2ndsinglelife I've been 100% fine ever since I knew to lay down for them.

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@girl_tinder

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I strive to one day be the level of put-together where I have a designated day to bathe all my hair brushes and accessories.

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Also I'm just way too tired to be social these days.