Be lead & convinced by ur own light within, rather than seduced by someone else's light bulb that will burn bright, dim, & burnout; only to leave u n the dark once again.
We need to strengthen such inner values as contentment, patience and tolerance, as well as compassion for others. Keeping in mind that it is expressions of affection rather than money and power that attract real friends, compassion is the key to ensuring our own well-being.