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[Politics UK @PolitlcsUK]

It wasn't to be… but if you are a victim of domestic abuse tonight, call the following number:

0808 2000 247

[𝕛𝕒𝕟𝕖𝕒 @heyyitsjanea]

when i posted this video telling black folks to teach their babies it’s better to be alone than to have friends like these people asked why i was making it about race

this is why

[Cecilia Adeyemo @AdeyemoCecilia1]

School of Nursing (RN)
School of Midwifery (RM)
Postgraduate Diploma in Education (PGCert)
BSc in Nursing
MSc Healthcare Management and Leadership
PhD in Nursing
Lecturer, Nursing Education and Administration
Associate Professor of Nursing
Dean, College of Nursing Science

[PS⚡️ @Neelaasapphire]

Sugar cane women workers in India HAVE THEIR UTERUS REMOVED to avoid missing a single day of work.

This is where your misogyny should end and voice the inhumane working conditions of people across the world!

[Sola ♥ @Viveza2]

@AdekemiSaliu You said “it exists here in primary care…” And went on to talk about community midwives. When the OP was talking about health visitors.

Perhaps more clarity in your texts next time.

[Sola ♥ @Viveza2]

Children see, children do.

[chunaid khan @mwahriam]

women in general lowkey need to get rid of the concept that losing weight = looking beautiful genuinely. i mean i cant blame them fully bec thats what society has literally ingrained into our minds but like cmon now

[ellā @ella_camo]

This is the UK we love. Everyone together having a good time. 🇬🇧🫶🏽

[Ł™️ @lamzszn]

No heatwave will ever touch these levels again

[Iyaloja of Fields 🙌🏽 @bisolabadejo]

There is also a conversation we need to have with Christian men.

Because some of you speak about women with an underhanded disdain that is deeply un-Christlike, then hide behind “biblical order” to justify it.

You cannot simply look at every Christian woman who resonates with feminism and dismiss her as rebellious. History has shown women have had reasons to fight. The Church is not entirely innocent in the abuse and silencing of women. We have sometimes weaponized Scripture instead of rightly dividing it.

Some women did not become angry because they hate God. They became angry because people used God against them.

There are women who have been talked down to, ignored, diminished, spiritually manipulated, and emotionally controlled in church spaces while men quoted “submission” at them like a threat.

And when women begin to push back against that, you cannot automatically label them rebellious without enough humility to ask:

“What exactly are they reacting to?”

Because even in Scripture, God did not condemn women who challenged systems.

The daughters of Zelophehad fought.
They contended.
They challenged a structure that disadvantaged them.

And God said:

“The daughters of Zelophehad speak right.” (Numbers 27:7)

Not rebellious.
Not dishonorable.
Not with the spirit of Jezebel…
Right.

Some of you need to realize that being male does not automatically make your interpretation superior.

Statements like:

“Woman was created later, therefore she is lesser,”
“Eve was deceived, therefore women are inferior,”
“Men are naturally superior because Adam came first,”

do not make you sound spiritually mature. They make you sound biblically unintelligent.

Genesis 1 says:

“Male and female created he them.”

God did not create woman as an afterthought. He had both genders in mind from the beginning.

And Genesis 2 is not about superiority.
It is about order.

Order does not mean value.

Christ and the Church have order.
The Father and the Son have order.
Order is not inferiority.

In fact, biblical leadership is not domination.
Christ never used His position to belittle the Church, He died for her.

So how did some Christian men become more arrogant than Christ?

You brandish submission like a weapon.
You speak about masculinity like it is superiority.
You talk about women as though leadership means lordship.

News flash, you are not a biblical male. You are carnally minded and we all know what that means.

To lead in our Kingdom is to serve. Where is your service?!

And if creation order is your argument for superiority, then goats should be greater than men because animals were created before Adam.

The logic collapses immediately.

The truth is many women are angry because they encountered distortion disguised as doctrine.
Male ego preached as theology.
Misogyny defended with proof texts.

And instead of constantly rushing to call women rebellious, maybe Christian men need enough self-awareness to ask:

“Have we represented Christ properly?”

Because many women are not rejecting Christ.
They are reacting to men who looked nothing like Him.

Love and Light… with a sprinkle of Holy Ghost Fire.

[Slimfit @iSlimfit]

The NHS midwife and health visitor system after a baby is born is one of the most genuinely supportive things this country does quietly and without fanfare. Top notch design 🙏🏼

[Zion @zionszzn]

Bro… I yelled at my Son and he gonna close his eyes and count to 3 😭

Was he gonna beat my ass??

[Big Yetty / Attend TBE ✨ @yetunede]

I was not in the rabbit hole of Ayra Starr Vs Tyla on TikTok for months for some of you to say Tyla isn’t media trained. Anyways, let’s flash back Friday to AfroChella 2021 as Ayra introduces Tyla to a global audience.

[Freyy @Freyy_is]

we are quick to welcome the unbeliever, but very quick to distance ourselves from the believer who is struggling. winning souls is important, but retaining souls matters too.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Actually, NOBODY likes you when you're depressed. Plain and simple. We can talk all day about MENTAL HEALTH and how important it is but the moment you are depressed, people really start to distance themselves.

They see you as NEGATIVE, a BURDEN, and someone too HEAVY to handle.

[Maryam @hell_line0]

My MIL sat down across the table from me, one week postpartum, and matter-of-factly told me she’d like to pay for our house cleaner, since she didn’t leave nearby and couldn’t be as helpful as she’d like.

This was my 3rd baby, but my 1st with my husband.

The 2nd time I had a baby, my in-laws lived 2 doors down and were MIA.

The 1st time I had a baby, I was a single mom. My mom went on vacation the next day.

My MIL’s generosity re-wired my brain

[Sola ♥ @Viveza2]

A lot can be achieved when you’re DINKs - Dual income, no kids.

[Hazel Kaizoku @meister_kwame]

A healthy 2 income household is one of the biggest cheat codes

One person making $140k and the other will be bring in $84K

That’s like $14K every month after tax

You’ll move mountains together