Vorvayne

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[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

Dismantle || Debrief UPDATE

EXO | Chapter 4/7 |37k/64k | E

🫀Part 4: Desire
🫀X-Subaek play with their new toy
🫀X-Exo's wildly deviant social norms feat. Sechan
🫀X-Baekhyun wears a skirt
🫀Pandemonium at the Exo debriefing
🫀[In which this fic earns its Dubcon tag]

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@danidonovan The order isn't strict or it fails. But the pre-work of really thinking about what's important to me creates a lot of intrinsic motivation to get things done, so then I just...more or less do them.

This works maybe ~80% of the time. Which with my record is AMAZING.

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@danidonovan I've found that just really thinking deeply about my priorities and trying to, well, prioritise them, is both 1) very hard for ADHD people, and 2) super worth it because then planning is just, okay, I do the things in approx order of priority, with a 'can I do this now?' modifier

[easter 🐣 @easterkingston]

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[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@itsoverkitten @dreamergirl2727 Now we've started realising how many autistic and ADHD women and girls have been diagnosed with 'anxiety' and 'depression' instead of the ND things they actually have, I wonder what else is in that misdiagnosis can of worms

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@itsoverkitten @dreamergirl2727 Strong agree. Even some people who I've met who were dxed with 'depression' v clearly didn't have MDD and were either 1) depressed about specific life circumstances they had going on, or 2) had a not unrelated but different mental health thing that was getting them seriously down

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@vividvoid There is no fucking separation between me and the outside world and trying to hold one is apparently a major sort of tension....I mean I sortof believed this already in an I guess philosophical way but godd*damn*. Thank you.

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@vividvoid That.....worked. I. So, there's one specific "letting go" meditation video on youtube that works better than anything else has ever worked, and you just 1) channeled it in one sentence, and 2) pointed out to me which part was the important part. Damn.

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

chapter 4 link: https://t.co/TuTTnCgm1i

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

NEW FIC!

Dismantle || Debrief
EXO | Baekmyeon | Chapter 1/6 | 7.7k/63k | Explicit

🫀Part 1: Disguise
🫀X-EXO clones
🫀 What have they done to Baekhyun?
🫀Junmyeon fights his shadow and loses
🫀 A collar, a cage, a belt, a rope

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

Dismantle || Debrief UPDATE

EXO | Chapter 4/7 |37k/64k | E

🫀Part 4: Desire
🫀X-Subaek play with their new toy
🫀X-Exo's wildly deviant social norms feat. Sechan
🫀X-Baekhyun wears a skirt
🫀Pandemonium at the Exo debriefing
🫀[In which this fic earns its Dubcon tag]

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@sqiouyilu @CallingSoftly But you can do that without a corset, and it should improve your energy, breathing and posture

Note that the shoulders aren't uninvolved here, but the biggest contributors here are 1) relative pelvis-ribcage positioning, and 2) breathing technique.

Lemme fetch instructions

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@sqiouyilu @CallingSoftly When it engages to draw in a breath.

Now, if it isn't coming back up correctly, what that means is you're not managing a fully relaxed outbreath. I can see why a corset improves lower rib flare and puts everything in a good position to achieve a more complete outbreath.

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@CallisteCamu @Breliloquy Hey, being fair, a notable number of them are doing it on purpose (esp, obviously, the ones with an interest in historical fashion).

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@owenbroadcast My parents seem to have thought that the eye exams at school would have caught it but.......well, obviously not lol. Idk when those even were but clearly they were either not early enough to catch me, already with notably bad eyesight at ~5, or not v thorough.

[Vorvayne @Vorvayne]

@owenbroadcast I used to stand *uncomfortably* close to other people and got yelled at about it constantly because it was unnerving not being able to see their face, same RE the TV which I also couldn't see properly.